You are playing a game, and you think that since there are winner, and losers, that game is inherently unfair ???
Who ever said it needs to be fair?
If life had been possible during the hot dense state of the initial universe, they may have skipped Newtonian and GR gravity and gone straight to Quantum Gravity, as observational evidence, at that time, would have led to it.
And they might have the equivalent of Maxwell's equations for the Electroweak force. They would never know ( until much later if they survived the symmetry break ) about the Weak Nuclear and the Electromagnetic forces.
Maybe you think we should be complaining about how unfair it is for us ???