I gave iNow a tick of approval. But I do have a situation to relate that I believe to be relevant.
When my young bloke was about 3 or 4 years old, we had just moved into the house we now still own and live in. Three houses down was another family who had been there for a few years who had another little boy about the same age, who had two older brothers around 13 or 14 years old. My Son and Andrew [the other little bloke] generally got on well together and played with each other as kids do. Except for the occasions his two older brothers would egg him on to hit my young bloke. This happened four or five times, and my Son would come inside crying.
My wife would tell him to just walk away and turn the other cheek in true christian like fashion, while after the first couple of times, it greatly annoyed me. On one of those occasions I grabbed my Son after he had come inside crying and asked what had happened. I had though actually observed it. With his Mother away I told my Son that the next time Andrew hit him, to hit him back as hard as he could!
Sure enough around a couple of hours latter, my boy was out playing again, with Andrew, and I noticed the two older brothers in Andrew's ear. Andrew then walked up to my boy and hit him. My Son took an almighty swing and hit Andrew back, putting him on his arse! As his two older brothers started to approach I walked outside and made my presence known and the two older brothers turned tail with the young Andrew who was in tears and went inside to their parents.
The ending of this tale of bullying as I saw it, is that now more then 35 years later, my Son and Andrew are still the best of mates [my boy was best man at his wedding] and his parents were great friends of ours and still are.
Was this a form of justice? revenge? punishment? an eye for an eye? Or just an example of how sometimes standing up for one's self, can have a pleasing ending.