There are two kinds of measurements.
Absolute, as in temperature, where there is a well defined zero point, and all temps are in relation to it, and, gauge, where the measurement depends on where and how the measurement is made; think of a bird on a 15000 v hydro line, that feels zero potential.
Time, and distance, are not absolute ( as Studiot has mentioned ), and it makes no sense to say this point is 12 km, or this instant is 17 sec.
We specify differences in length with separation, and differences in time with duration.
And just like the bird on the wire, we can set the origin of the separation at r=0 and the origin of the duration with t=0 to ease our calculations.
Similarly, as INow has mentioned, there is no universal now, or universal present, because there cannot be simultaneity.
My 'now' or 'present' differs from the person standing two feet away from me, never mind a galaxy a billion LY away.
My now is your future and someone else's past; how do you argue that only the present, or now, exists but past ans future do not ??
And to all those who think that time is simply an effect of motion, that time is emergent from the three spatial dimensions, I challenge you, as Markus did, ( since GR is our map/model of the real terrain ) to find the Panama Canal on a map of Central America from the 1800s.
Question for Markus, Mordred and anyone else who may know...
We have a separation interval between events as a distance, so we convert the time coordinates by multiplying by c to get a 'distance'.
Could we also specify the interval length as a time ( by dividing distances by c ) and would this make any difference whatsoever to GR ?
Would some then argue that time is fundamental, and lengths are emergent ?