Absolutely, nuclear war is a zero sum game so for the deterrent to work efficiently, both sides need trusted information; without trust escalation is almost inevitable, with trust de-escalation is perfectly possible.
For exqample America missed a trick in the Cuban crisis, the reason Russia wanted to place nukes on Cuba is because they perceived an imbalance in the game, which means they think it's a winnable game, but only for their opponent. It was averted because America promised to take theirs out of Turkey (IIRC); but that perception of imbalance remained in the Russian culture, the result of which meant a spiral of escalation/investment to the point that each side had 10 or 20 (or more) times the amount of nuclear ordinance needed to ensure it remained a zero sum game.
All of which could have been avoided, if America not only promised the Turkish nukes but also promised to level the playingfield and were prepaired to prove it, Russia wouldn't feel the need to invest anymore, not only would escalation be avoided, but it shines a light on the path to de-escalation, take one away each, one step at a time and before we know it we're past the event horizon of peace without mutually assured destruction, while the game remains zero sum.
More difficult now for sure because power corrupts; if America had taken note of some strong philosophical thinking on the subject (I've skimmed some of writing's but can't remember the authors names, I'll do some digging), available a decade before the Cuban crisis.