If the "concious" mind is in control, then try an do the following; become angry, become really sad, become jealous....
Its impossible to do these things, because your mind is not in control of it....
Think of the "unconscious" mind as the seed and the "conscious" mind the flower. What gives the seed its potential? I do agree that the "conscious" mind has its part to play in the re-seeding process, however if the seed contains potential, and it unfolds as such, the "conscious" mind is really acting out this potential. Mind and consciousness are often seen as one, but it is separate, and must not be confused. If the mind is a flower, then what sees it? There must be something seperate from the mind, because you are aware of your mind, I.e. the thoughts that it produces. Another example is this: If you can observe a dog walking past you, you know that you are not the dog. If you can see a pencil in your hand, you cannot be the pencil. Similarly, if you look at your hand, and it is chopped off in front of you, the YOU still remains. So, if you can observe "things" and you feel comfortable that they are not you, then why not view your thoughts the same way? If this is so, then you cannot be your thoughts, as they are "there" and yet YOU are "here". Try and be still for 5 minutes and stalk your mind. Where do all those spontaneous thoughts come from? Is that you? If it is, then i challenge you to turn them off....The sooner we realise that something much bigger is at play here, the sooner humanity will find peace.