1. agree, but no analogy is perfect
2. mostly wrong, you can throw it in still air further "away" than at right angles and have it arrive from behind more than right angles and have a net force "pulling" the boats together, and a symmetrical clockwise throw will balance an anti-clockwise throw.
3. This is good also and if you prefer it great even though it requires "intermediary 'fields', extra time, and relatively large volumes of space as well as matter/energy to work against.".
Not that I have a problem with that and all analogies break down somewhere. A "perfect" analogy would not be an analogy, would it?