think of it like this. from any one point, the speed of light must always be the speed of light. so if you travel near the speed of light and you turn on your headlights, you must perceive that light as traveling at the speed if light. Your perception of time will then be slowed by the same ratio as the speed of light - your speed = v so v:c is the same ration as (your time):(a viewpoint at rest relative to your speed).
I dont know if that helps but you should be able to conceive that there is no actual or relative time. time is just time, there are no varieties.
also, light would have no point of view. light is a special thing and does perceive time as it is traveling at the speed of light, it will experience no time. That may be why it is a special thing, because it has no time, no halflife, never expires.