If anything, Hilbert spaces are "well-behaved" - that's why I asked targeting those spaces instead of something more complicated. But if you want to simplify, we could go with finite-dimensional Hilbert spaces.
As I mentioned, "I don't even know how to ask this", I understand the concept of limits, but I've learned it in another language.
I mentioned "I'm not a maths student" to clarify that I'm not deeply interested in the intricacies of the very concept of limit, but more into a more pragmatic approach - as an engineer, one might say. Notice I asked for references, not to solve a particular problem. This page: http://tutorial.math.lamar.edu/Classes/CalcI/LimitProofs.aspx
contains a series of limit identities, but nothing like I showed. Another example that consider is
[latex]\lim_{x\rightarrow a} f(x) \stackrel{?}{=} \lim_{x\rightarrow \frac{a}{b}} f(bx)[/latex]
is that always true, regardless of [latex]f(x)[/latex]?