Hi. Thanks for your post. You're right - all inertial reference frames are equivalent for illustrating physical laws. However for a long time, I have believed that the train stories cloud the importance of Special Relativity for our young high school juniors and seniors and college freshmen struggling to understand how physics challenges their intuitive understanding of how Nature works. That's why I have long advocated for the related experiments approach to teaching the subject - one fixed frame of reference and two separate but related experiments, as opposed to a single experiment and two frames of reference in uniform relative velocity (moving at speeds close to the speed of light, no less).
Just a cursory review of questions students ask about slow clocks and shrinking meter sticks illustrate the depth of the confusion. In the related experiments approach, there are only one set of clocks, one set of meter sticks and, of course, one set of whatever additional laboratory apparatus is needed. My clocks do not run fast or slow or whatever, my meter sticks do not shrink or grow or whatever, etc. In my Monday/Tuesday imagery, I only flip a page on the calendar.
Let me give you an example of how confusing things have gotten:
Given a pair of spacetime coordinates (t,x,y,z) and (t’,x’,y’,z’) connected to each other by a Lorentz transformation -
The conventional view: Two reference frames, Frame O and Frame O’, moving uniformly relative to each other, locate the SAME point in spacetime, where the first set of coordinates are specified by the clocks and meter sticks belonging to observers in Frame O and the second set of coordinates are specified by the clocks and meter sticks belonging to observers in Frame O’.
The related experiments view: There is a SINGLE frame of reference in which a pair of related experiments are carried out - the first, say, on Monday, and the second on Tuesday - and where the two sets of coordinates identify SEPARATE points in spacetime. These points appear on the separate world lines produced by the experiments, or, in 3-space, on the separate paths of motion.
Look, Einstein was fully aware of the fact that Maxwell's equations hold their form under a Lorentz transformation. Had he built on that observation and created a related experiments picture along the lines discussed here, we would stiil have Einstein's Theory of Special Relativity, but without the nonsense. As things stand today, the conventional view offers a weird, confused, unintuitive and abstract reach for reality. In contrast, the related experiments view is reality.