ImplicitDemands

I've been reading a 2023-2024 Flash Comics storyline "Dawn of DC": 'Siege of Stillness'-'Flash in The Hand' and these story-arcs are employing three quantum effects, some having been known for around one hundred years as the Koppenhagen Interpretation. Anyway there are three older superpowers, two of which the Flash already had and one in which his son has, described in a more modern way. The two powers the Flash uses are phasing through solids, and creating an Alcubierre Warp Bubble around his person in order to achieve superspeed. The third power of his son is teleportation. These are known ?s in physics that have words put on them like "Neutrino", or "Dark Energy/Matter", or "Superposition". The truth is, not only do we know nothing about these names we've given to what we've observed, we also know nothing about light or what it is other than matter contains a certain quantity of it that we can only get a fraction of in uncontrolled bursts via fusion and fission. Some of which can be harnessed to power our devices. Even if we don't know about these elements they do exist, we can know this with more certainty than we know God to be a man as opposed to a woman.

I've offered better solutions than anyone else. I can't make that happen, I'm not the government I can't offer discounts for favoring me as a courtship candidate. I could keep going on about think-tank solutions they'd only be used for people who haven't been proven to be able to retrace non-documented origins of widely used Arithmetic, as I have lately. It's none of these names: List of world's smartest people It's me, my name isn't on that list because I have two contacts, my immediate family. My SSN has nothing but an arrest record attached to it, NO FURTHER DETAILS. I am completely unknown but when it comes down to it I might be able express why neutrinos are able to phase through matter using arithmetic. Guess we'll never know because I'm not willing to even be willing to give you the chance to make me willing to explain that as I did my workout routine. Getting fit is simple, it's just difficult. All that engineering and math stuff is not simple to figure out. I could explain in a simple way if I really cared to.

You're absolutely right. Whining over time I can't get back, opportunities passed because of obligations which were supposed to be rewarded according to the information I'd been given. From just those two posts an elected official interested in stable fusion and all that electromechanical engineering that automates inputs for it to boot, need only look at those two quotes for a 360 degree angle breakdown of the 9/11 or Pompeii scale of how royally my time's been f-ed. If it's anything it's not my attitude, I've said multiple times that outwardly I remain cordial inside my most furious states of being, it's the constant displacement. My social structure is the same as the nonexistent bone structure of a jellyfish but only because of how limited I am in my placement and how long it lasts. So at least fix that, first take wherever I am and start thinking opposite side of the country or as far away as possible from my current placement.

My BMI is under 10%. Exercise was a small part of it. I had built up a frame over the years, right now it was just portion control. I lost some of that frame but I've gotten back in the weight room. Just make sure you hit all the muscle groups, go until failure, if your numbers are very low like mine are now, stop, wait a few minutes, and then go back and hit it. If it was chest or abs and you feel you rushed the workout later that day long after your done you can substitute with pushups and crunches. The goal is soreness throughout each week, that's the quota. Today everything I hit is sore except shoulders, meaning I need to change my shoulder routine. At this BMI I have to be over 500 cals below what is considered or believed to be the recommended daily amount, and 9 pounds under what is considered the minimum healthy weight for my height. At 36 grams of protein per day, the fat per day and all that other stuff reduced, I'd wager it would take at least 2 weeks to gain a pound of muscle, that is with sufficient microtrauma. I wouldn't change my calorie intake until two weeks have transpired and my numbers go up on lifts.

It took me a very long time to get in shape the first time I did it 5 years ago. Within two years of experiencing poverty for the first time it was 100% undone. I got this opportunity and I got hit hard, I messed up and I had to get sober, work my ass off, and still get back to where I was fitness wise those 5 years ago. 70 grueling pounds I was in the process of losing, improving in all areas intellectually, figure out things on my own sifting from the poor material I was given. And keeping my room extremely clean, cutting my own hair on top of all of the other grooming down to keeping all my tone-tails trimmed. And these moments where all of this is put together is rare, and yet I was still putting myself out there and actually getting rejected more than ever. Like I said it's rare for me to actually be at my peak for dating and it requires constant work, and that was all thrown in the trashcan for the fat of land who got lucky everywhere I looked. Now if I let myself go again, there you go it's all for nothing. Now I'm working on it not being such a brief window where I look my best and everything is clean and I have a car and can take someone (f the nonbinary lingo I mean a woman) places, buy them things, but even if I can lengthen that window this kind of stuff where all of that effort is just thrown in the trash for no-one special, just can't keep happening constantly where it's thrown in my face. I couldn't tell you why this keeps happening, there doesn't seem to be any reason for it. Don't try and justify especially not using some of the reasons that have been given here which are so far off base, you can't justify it's just a thing. Just take the observation, don't give it reason, just take it for what it is. Even if there were an excuse it wouldn't be enough. Instead of helping me, which is icky right? Feels icky just saying. Why don't we work on creating a mandate that we shouldn't lower our standards, and have women here, boys who don't deserve it over there, and have the women hold out even on we men who deserve it until they can make a better decision about their prospects. Now that group could actually get some traction unlike incels.

How about Seth Rogan? He does tell very funny jokes but I don't think that creates friction in other areas. Look, a lot of this advice as been crafted to be misleading. That is a fact, it's something that happens to me all of the time. But there are certain mechanisms behind attraction and body-type reflects effort, lifestyle. There's nothing wrong with allowing something that makes you attracted to a person apart of your standards. It's perfectly normal. Status determines what you have, what's provided, health care, vacation. Basically how the government treats you and your own. I work on all aspects of myself including public relations. I accept, even though I expressed the opposite sentiment, the importance of the group even as it pertains to the quality I provide as a romantic partner. Evidence of this in how I carry myself in real life is that I actually made time to be social at the bequest of another and then was immediately stabbed in the back. I just feel like the more that I put it the more ridiculous it seems when nothing changes, or the irritating it becomes. In fact it now seems like it's getting worse. That just encourages reversing what I do and taking a hedonist approach, let me get out of shape and do nothing and get all the girls as I see everyone else doing, which is counterproductive let's be real here. There needs to be an attempt at rewarding good behavior instead of doing the opposite. iNow is making the immaturity of my situation manifest online, randomly quoting negative comments. The fact that I'm surrounded by what comes across as sado-dom horse dung is becoming plain as day.

If someone held you in high standards you'd reject them for picking you? Self-worth is narcissism? What? That's not what I meant. I am talking about being stingy/picky.

Now this is obvious random slander slapped in here. We've already separated my definition of term from the standard definition. In my case it is a matter of achieving a certain quality relationship for the worth of the work I put in both for my body and for my status. It has nothing to do with misogyny, it has to do with sociology. I'm a socialist, not a chauvinist. The two are not even comparable. They are opposites. To compare them as a visual it is the difference between an LoTR Orc and an LoTR Elf. Socialism is about being FAIR. I'm calling out what I see, what I see APPEARS as I've written. Whether or not I actually believe it at face value is irrelevant when it makes me feel a certain way all the same. If I get nudged away, or niced away, I will have no choice but to take it literally. Again, I'm not telepathic, I don't know what anyone else is thinking, even if the recurring pattern is brutally harsh and taking it's toll, because I am not a mind reader I have to take it at face value. I've just taken as many responsibilities for next as I did last year. This time it was by choice, so I get a number that is meaningless to me as a reward, a salary. But is that going to help with what I want? I don't have time to find out what everyone does behind closed doors 24/7, so I'm going to have to continue taking things at face value. Hopefully it won't continue to appear so ridiculous.

For now. Someone said on here, "stop trying to effect". In terms of success in the context of this particular conversation. I could already have already succeeded but due to the nature of the goal I wouldn't know immediately. No, I claimed that my efforts were wasted because SOMEBODY went and lowered their standards due to bad direction/impatience. Which I told you was exactly what I went through my first time.

The ability to express ideas vividly through language, even if you get sidetracked by adhd as I do, actually makes it more apparent that a lot of what's been said about my supposed lack of social skills/interpersonal awareness is probably not true. And I'm not one to delude myself.

I feel like the suggestion that I should lower my standards instead of working harder to earn them is just an insult to my ideals. Actually they have programs that claim to do this, but it's just a lighter form of punishments. It would be great if something like this existed that was done scientifically, according to situations that work, as I explained in the previous post. The truth is, the fact that we all start the same and certain situations change us, is overlooked. The prevailing sentiment of the census when it comes to prevention versus causation/method incrimination is that "they" just don't deserve real rehabilitation.

Yours are crazy policies. Except public housing. The craziest one is man-made mind altering substances. That's not a science, that's either hubris, intentional sabotage, or a poor understanding of nature. My policy was to involve certain benefits of being seen on the center of the stage, like in a sport or whatever, maybe make the local newspaper, in a tight community where you share classes and activities with your audience. Because that is a formula that can be effective for various reasons that go beyond the advice here simply joining a group. Or having two families who can exchange information about how a relative from each behave and can set up events where they'd be sure to bond. Something of that nature, which by the way I didn't hear mentioned as a solution, is the way.

To reiterate how picky the situation makes me, particularly regarding looks. It might seem like cartoon physics biology that if I ate any less daily than I am now, or any more, even hair's breadth, it would make the difference between actually being either anorexic or obese depending on which direction the food balance tips. My eye in the mirror is picking up on any microscopic detail that could ever possibly remind me of either a holocaust victim or a sumo-wrestler. Maybe after I get used to it I'll let you get off on me marrying an Ogre after taking all the supermodels for yourself. Yeah that's not happening, yes looks ARE a prerequisite, FOR EVERYONE. For the simple reason that they at least on some level will feel short-sold/ripped off because of who their friends are with. Omg, would you people stop it with this. I'm articulate, not deranged. On all dating apps you can pay to chat with catfish, literally.

If a recurring pattern becomes detrimental to one's own well-being, it should be addressed by that person in some way. As you say you don't know me, so why make it personal? Why not do what other members do and treat it like a debate. No, I do not find it attractive, I find it necessary especially since on here I have demonstrated positive qualities (despite the unusual influx of negative reputations in the computer science forum far exceed those in here where I ramble) I know when I've displayed accurate information of particular value and I know what not to display. This is my form of business, so this is the place I address it. Yes, I'm treated as a loser would be treated, maybe this is because I rely on government program, am unapologically stingy and selfish. Right now I am adressing this issue, I've become sober so now I'm also going to do the right thing and start taking precautions to generate income the right way, through service even if I feel that service is synthesized or superficial. Appearances are everything, I don't talk like a desperate loser even, I am writing like one here but for a specific reason. I don't feel ashamed. Not even for suggesting we go back to arranged marriage (with a finessed approach, not the hercy jerky kind you see in Game of Thrones). Doesn't matter. If someone doesn't have a lot of time to make a choice light travels faster than sound, hence looks. Different kinds of appearances, saving face, a lot of times people are not themselves because they are in an unusual situation, or they are too honest (as I am now), now I can't save face! Or the literal meaning of saving face, someone happens to be at their boiling point, they perceive a verbal exchange from the wrong angle, assault occurs and face can't be saved. Make a bad call and get judged. That's all there is to it, it's pretty cut and dry. Get used to it. That's the law of the land. This thread is about changing that just by attaching a gameplan to someone's SSN, not just a rap-sheet. Right now if you can't carry a tune you don't stand a chance, one little critique and game over. You're homeless. Although I'm experiencing that and look outward and see the opposite, appearances can be deceiving but that's not what I need right now. That's a detriment, even if that were to be flipped I see someone else having every little thing go wrong and they fall apart, appearances can be deceiving. Maybe it's a gimmick to make me feel better, maybe that person is doing great. This is the craziness in my mind, yet I go out there and I put on a performance, I'm doing great on the outside. It would even seem like I'm cool with the obvious public demonstrations of unfairness blatantly out there. No one would believe I actually am.

I tried to answer using the comparison of how much effort I put in compared to whoever they picked based on outward appearance, you know the fruits of labor displayed as features such as grooming, physique, etc. Do you mean in what way do they lower their standards as in what goes inside the dorm? Again the entire comparison of college performance or source of funding was entirely exaggerated to the worst possible outcome by me, because I feel this is me living the sum of my worst fears. I fought hard not to go in their or listen or hear anything. I'd compare the experience to prison rape as a whole just because of how messed up celibacy has made my mind. So how then is my situation not as bad as chronic pain? R.U.M.O, resentment upon missing out. All the effort put in keeping everything clean tiddy, wasted for someone with lazier lifestyle. Come on, after what's been written, we're past that don't ya think? This thread is about the governments ability to provide social security. When for me there were clearly zero precautions taken, down to the dividing and separation of family, and subsequent displacement into unfamiliarity, and all the dating disadvantages, and the detrimental psychological effects that comes with that whole entire bundle of f you. I got the full package. I mean if they care enough to get the detail of certain events under an SSN or teach me calculus, they should have cared enough to take precautions to avoid said mental health problems from developing. This "attitude" or where my mind goes, is not innately apart of my personality, it's just a foreign element.

I mean there are plenty of female chimpanzees out there. Also female kangaroos. But what kind of quality of life can one have with a female that can't even form a single word? When people say celibacy they really mean quality friction between what themselves and what they feel is an appropriate woman, someone of value. Which, I couldn't even tell you what that would entail because honestly living like this I don't feel the purpose of it anymore.

"They" don't give me the chance to notice, even when I change my appearance. I'm just saying of a person (and I mean woman but we need to be all nonbinary, discrete and implicit in the real world to maintain appearances) that I nudged away just randomly started haranguing me why, I would intuit desperation. I would seriously reconsider the advice you've provided for anyone in any situation. Especially an extra unfair, extra high-stakes, dating difficulty on maximum mode situation. You should take about to month to reconsider what I've provided about my situation, and then another month of consultation with experts, before assessing my situation. Again you don't do stuff like that, but if it's an elected official in the United States Government, and they took it as seriously as they do policies that get votes, then maybe I'd get more than just ultra-convoluted advice, it'd be an arranged situation, with devotional vids about me provided prior that are geared to show the positive so as to be more appealing to my strengths and less revealing of my faults, seeing as how that is the process candidates use to sway votes. I really am that petty considering the past, I am more interested in immediate results or some outward change in pattern, than any further precautions I'd need to partake. And for what I feel is good reason. These are those dramatic explicit demands that I'd rather avoid making. If you'd think about the best way to set up a relationship between families, as in arranged marriage, they usually set up events throughout the weeks designed to encourage a sort of bond between the desired couple knowing them on a deeper level and one family being able to relay that information to the other family. Instead, the government of the modern era has a file under your SSN that doesn't even list your accomplishments, just an arrest record if you've ever fucked up one time. Which is shared without permission to employers. The rest is left to you to self-promote, at least from what I've been TOLD. Now I don't actually believe society is actually THAT petty. But if they are I'm petty enough to shamelessly make demands like that. Because I feel like I've done enough to deserve better than scraps.

You don't know how this feels, you have no idea. You think logically it isn't constantly irritating to the point that it's painful? Can you actually truly quantify what it is exactly that I am feeling daily, enough to say it's not as great a quantity as chronic pain? That it actually doesn't make things unmanageable for me? It is a primary need according to your psychologists. Poverty is apart of it, the two are not mutually exclusive, the lack of aid (through finances or otherwise) is a some of that weight thrown on top of the camel's back, visiting a particularly odd event that I mentions is the mere feather on the cap of the camel rider added that finally broke its back. Some organization needs to do something about it. There's nothing that I'm not changing, be-it sobriety, seeking help, or joining group. I do not blame myself, I blame all you! You people fail to grasp the gravity the situation when it already had become dangerous in the past, multiple times. If you knew what this feels like through my lens. Then I look like a desperate loser. Which I guess looking at some of the advice here is the intent. It was obviously the same nefarious advice given by a "mental health professional", that and mind altering substances which btw would have been equivalent to all the pros and cons of marijuana with some extra nefarious side effects thrown it in order to make it legal. Right, nor should they. Because it's either me against the world, or it's a free for all. Obviously it's not a free for all or our lazy ginger furry friend wouldn't be spoiled rotten, so what are we left with? Everyone against me. Again I'm not going to build a log cabin and become a hermit, because shaving would be difficult, just because society has a sadistic sense of humor. Just don't expect me to patent important parts I've left out, like how a micro-induction motor can be used to alter the pixelated output via touchscreen inputs as well as work with an exciton laser to send and receive graphics to other devices. This is the bluetooth, wifi, and any remote electronic service works, and a lot of people would like it for free.

A guy who doesn't take a challenging degree, overdoses on comfort food and can eat feelings away that he does not need, having mommy and daddy pay his way through, doesn't take it seriously, doesn't bother with his hair, beard, exercise - to me it is disgusting that when it comes to women I get his female equivalent forced upon me and my female equivalent is stuck with him whilst making it impossible for me to have my fair shot - this is infuriating. If anyone actually feels like I'm out of line here than they truly are delusional.

One of them wasn't explicated as a date, we never said we were dating. Really there wasn't a kiss even. It was just an exchange of massages. It was purely unsexual yet I prefer that experience over any sexual encounter I've had. It was the person really. How did I mess that up? Well it started with me not consolidating a relationship, then the actual point of disconnect was my fault, the result of frustration really. That was the only thing I attribute to breaking the perpetual cycle of invol cel. but that particular relationship I am referring to didn't involve sex so I am not generally talking about actual sex. So the losing of my virginity is still technically during being an incel. To be clear, losing virginity is the penetration of the sex organ. So I'm modifying the definition of the term to serious relationship (not incel) versus clown relationship (during incel). Of course every aspect of my life is worse now, I'm better in every way but the quality of my life is regulated at an extremely low standard, especially concerning any relationship. Family relationships are either purely stress or extremely distant/non-existent with absolutely no help financially. I get more help from the government than from family and that help just ends up with a setup like this where my quality of life is lowered at least related to how things used to be. Friendships are poor/non-existent. There's zero romantic prospects. Just getting it all out there in the open. So there really needs to be a government policy to ensure there aren't future cancelled Einstein's due to a broken relationship with one's government. Although Einstein did leave Germany, I don't have that kind of patience to learn a new language and start over like he did. Unlike him I'd just keep the big stuff to myself until either things change or I'd just carry it to my grave.

Have you studied how patient chronic pain sufferers are when waiting for a cure. Constant pain, invol celibacy always agonizing the back of your mind. For the most part manageable but Some days, ya know when I'm shaving my torso and cutting 40 pounds and then counting every calorie while doing all kinds of muscle groups when they make it difficult for me to get a decent spotter to help me go past failure to make sure that if I gain even an ounce of muscle there is zero fat to come with, having razor burns from shaving every hair that isn't on my eyebrow or head where it's fricken supposed to be, and I see an athletic woman go into a dorm with some fat furry who's too lazy to shave probably doing some pseudo major. On days like that imagine the gritty details of the sound of a snapping branch looking at how Conor Mcgregor's leg broke in half. And those days happen, OFTEN. Yeah I don't expect to live out the semester I'm going to quit, quote me on that. I'm going to need a lot more than patience. I'm going to need the census to be impatient regarding my case if I hope to be able to accomplish anything, because it really sets your adhd on overdrive. I turned 18, thirteen years ago, would you like me to go into detail how bad my first and only time was? I don't think so. The level in which women lower their sexual experience to me is disgusting, raunchy, infuriating, silly, ludicrous. So yeah, technical incels, women obviously have this problem. I saw them lowering their standards far too frequently.

You can tell a lot by looks too, texture, weight, essentially feel, and different hair colors and skin color can have various effects on various psychologies. That's light therapy is a thing. Accent, phonetics, blah blah blah the list goes on if something about any of those things irritates me, it's strange that's exactly what my only options are. Too taxing to go over every nuance of the bs I have to deal with in life, in general I don't see them getting away with this. No literally I look around and everyone else is floating on clouds.

In order to rid yourself of preconceptions just forget the past. It's not reconstructing reality the unfair rules for me do not apply to others. There's plenty of history on me for one to feel intimately about me, but that is mitigated between everyone I've ever interacted with and being constantly transition, as far as I can tell all of that was for nothing as of right now. This is why I want to forget, not reconstruct reality. It is five times more taxing to start over. I feel as though if you take an average person, I get taxed one hundred times heavier for everything. These days everyone flakes out on me. People are taxing, but in general if you add up how busy I've been and how much extra work I have to put in for things that are actually simple in reality but made more difficult just for me, I'm involuntarily friendless for the same reason I'm involuntarily celibate. Lack of aid. Looks are a prerequisite for me for reasons I've explained. I'd imagine they are a prerequisite for most women if they are for me. Looks are nothing, I agree, yet without being under a certain age or at least appearing under a certain age you don't stand a chance. That's all they are. Then there's everything else I need which differs from person to person but familiarity? And a relationship is a form of friendship, the feeling of comfortability or disgust even, doesn't mean you can't love someone, but with certain looks you can't really give off that platonic vibe. Which is what I mean by a prereg. You know that feeling you got when your mommy was showing you too much affection in front of others? Anyway, familiarity okay, you can't know what someone is thinking, the closest thing you can get is familiarity. You see why it's taxing to keep starting over, but here I am starting over again.

Flip a coin. The reality on that is you never know what someone else is thinking. Which is why verbal communication has to be literal, like "we are dating" and in English. It's so chaotic that everything does need to follow a very thin line as was critiqued, planned ahead of time, and the rules of engagement need to be spelled out. Does it take the fun out of things, well look at how I'm suddenly being compared to Ted Bundy THAT'S WHY. This is as ridiculous as the housing market, and the couples I see around me during this time is the icing on the cake. Maybe when we die we wake up to a more stable plane of existence, either way I'm carrying what I really know about non-people, about technology and physics, to my grave if it's going to be like this. No it's my experience, which is why I would like to do a Jason Bourne and go full amnesia. Just like getting stuck in involuntary celibacy we are imprisoned by our memories. Get rid of mine why don't you, then if I did end up on the news I would be able to give one of those annoying and pointless confessions. Or if it's an AA group how could I 9th step something I don't remember. "Whatever do you mean?". Like I was saying you can have a room full of geniuses, and in fact throughout human history until Einstein published a paper all the worlds minds put together couldn't figure it out for thousands of years. Here we're looking at a situation where you have to have the exact set of memories and experiences in order to find one gem of information. Imagination though, and I wouldn't blame him looking at the pictures, he never published said paper because he felt he was lowering his standards when marrying his wife. More whining but if we're being honest, I don't care. If I were a William Sidis with a six pack have less to negate my shame for being so selfish, but when you add up all of the ridiculousness I've been set aside for that seems to be genuine as far as I can tell, I absolutely say these things without apology. MSC was spot on. This is a fine level of difficulty, if psychology was my major but I know more about math, physics, tech. Now if I added psychology to my studies I wouldn't be any good in those areas but without beneficial intervention or aid by the world really I'd just end up sharing only what I need to and leaving the real good stuff out in my own field of work. So one does actually depend on something totally unrelated because I am person. But I am done with people. For now. You were uncanny in your assessment of my assessment of using groups for dating, which is one of very few options for someone who is displaced among strangers, but the reality is ya know ya really shouldn't use a group for dating. Being labelled is just a slip on the wrist for someone like me and adds nothing constructive to society. I feel I was displaced by a bunch of psycho-assessors such as yourself, to toy with someone in a no win situation for refusing to bow his head in the past. Because 100% of the available groups are comedically labelled as church groups where using a group for dating would be especially scorned upon if I didn't see that exact behavior in spades already without me. That's ridiculousness of my situation, that and the abuse of private rooms all around me when I in all reality shouldn't be here, but there's no other candidate due to the housing market. It's been a joke from the start. The entirety of the rest of you psychoanalytic nonsense is such because it just tries to get me to blame myself. Which doesn't contribute someone that is well versed in keeping his resentments in check. Genuine cold heartedness aside. So really the issue is not being unfair to others in the process of helping me. So if it came between fulfilling my wishes at the cost of making me look like I don't deserve it for a time and keeping me stuck in this cycle, of course it's just like society to pick the latter. So what I was saying about the easy way or the hard way, the census would declare in a thick southern accent, "givem the hard way!"

It's not as simple as join a club. I think I had this conversation on the second page. I'm doing these things but the lack of stability, the constant transitioning from place to place, to make ends meet. A lot it actually is not my fault and I do have some resentment for having to live this way. But I have been open with therapists in the past. More than just what I've said here I've compared people in situations like this to being "potential Ted Bundy"s and I check that in myself. Obviously I go into more detail with a therapist but then they betray my trust and try and hypocritically medicate me when my solution is abstinence, and as I've explained that has been effective and has kept me out of jail. In fact the only time I'm dangerous is when you add mind altering substances to the mix and that includes when I was once willing to try meds. I actually did get armed so they do not help either. Actually the character was clearly jealous of Neo. I guess the moral of the story is "don't be that guy" Cypher/Bundy. Thanks a lot this has been really helpful /sarcasm