Well, I tend to believe that you can lose the opportunity if you don't take the chance. I had a girlfriend when I was about 9 or so, I was her first tongue kiss, but I moved away from that area after 5th grade. Recently I moved back and we ran into each other by chance. I also keep running into her family members by chance. Bottom line: sometimes I think she's supposed to be the right one if I think about it the way you do, but believe me, she's not. Usually the girls I think are the ones I'm supposed to be with are the ones I can talk to very easily and joke about 80's music and the things we watch on TV and smoke pot together. By the way I do all those things with her, but she has a boyfriend that she seems to love.