dr.syntax

c-my personal favorite, stay, but make them secretly beg for you to leave, that is; abide the rules, but be a real pain in the butt, that is the real test for them in my opinion, if they were really rotten, they'll flush you out in a way that exposes them, if it was you who was wrong all along....well...you'll know:-D..

d-stay, keep a low profile and try to do as much good as you can(my nerves won't stand this).

i haven't been here for long, but i don't think they're THAT bad, some of them are really really decent, spectacular i might add..but if it isn't working for you and you care for it, shif around a bit, try new things, log out and re-register with a new name, change the forums you visit, perhaps you'll then discover the place where the problem is hiding..

gooood luck!