I'm a self teacher too. Here is a resource that I find to be useful: http://tutorial.math.lamar.edu/Classes/DE/DE.aspx
This one is great for brushing up on the math. If you follow along with the exercises, he makes it very understandable. Pay close attention to the sections on Matrices and Eigenvectors because operators in quantum theory act like matrices on states which are similar to vectors. Also, basis states are similar to unit length eigenvectors. This site also has links to calculus so that you can brush up on integration if you need to.
Also as previously implied, Leonard Susskind is an excellent teacher and has some great video lectures on quantum mechanics here :http://newpackettech.com/Resources/Susskind/PHY25/QuantumMechanics_Overview.htm
I think that you will get the most out of these lectures if you take ample notes. Also, I find that using the rewind and the pause buttons helps considerably.