What about the definition of love by St. Paul in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 "Love is patient. Love is kind. It is not envious; It is not boastful; it is not proud; It is not rude; it is not self-seeking. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres."?
Or William Blake's view of it in his poem "The clod and the pebble:
Love seeketh not itself to please,
nor for itself have any care,
but for another gives its sense of ease,
and builds a heaven in hells despair.
So sang a clod of clay,
trodden under cattles feet;
but a pebble of the brook,
warble out these metres mete.
Love seeks only itself to please,
To bind another in its delight,
joy in another's loss of ease,
and builds a hell in heaven's despite.
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or by George Gordon, Lord Byron in "Friendship is love without his wings"
Why should my anxious breast repine,
because my youth has fled,
days of delight may still be mine,
affection is not dead.
In tracing back the years of youth,
one firm record, one lasting truth,
celestial consolation brings,
Bear it ye breezes to the seat,
where first my heart responsive beat,
friendship is love without his wings.
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