Remember when marriage meant committment?
I don't, but I'm sure some of you do.
I think alot of the way our brain's function has to do with basic biological needs. Mothers were equipped to care for young, and tend to be more emotion in order to provide more care for young. Men, however, tend to be the brutes, protecting the mother and his child. Though I'm sure culture has some to do with our differences.
I think some couples can be "eternally" happy biologically and emotionally. Though our divorce rate seems to dictate this is not the norm.
Who knows, maybe we'll get things right one day.