Who is "we"? I haven't seen that attitude expressed in this thread.
What I have seen expressed is the attitude that ALL citizens should be afforded equal opportunities that are not 'less equal' due to race, sex, gender, country of origin, etc.
It is your wording in these threads that often put you at odds with some of us. I doubt you meant that being trans is a 'life choice', but when you say things like that it make it seem as if you've relegated transgender people to some 'reduced' or less important category.
To a cis woman.