verbal and physiological abuse is just as much as a problem as physical abuse
and worse because there no marks.
nagging is nothing but when it becomes a physiological mind game what is one to do?
after in most cases the female is most likely smarter than the male and the only way the male knows to defend himself is physical violence.
this is no excuse
or even near an excuse
but the problem is there
and i doubt it will be resolved
while no one would dare tell a "modern" woman that they ought to be cooking and cleaning
it would not be a shocker to hear someone tell a man that they should be doing their own plumbing, electrical drywalling, car repair etc.
where women can wear any colors they chose men cannot wear most many colors such as red,blue,green etc
but this is becoming off topic so i digress