Some theories are widely accepted, almost as if you can take them as fact. The many worlds theory, as far as I know, is definitely not one of them. It's just one possibility, and as long as we have some, no matter how small, reason to think it is a valid possibility then it would be foolish to dismiss it.
But, as you say, if all realities happened all at once but were independent of each other, then as I have already shown there is no need for that.. Why can't there just be one? What I was showing in my previous post is that there is actually a logical progression of thought that leads to the many worlds theory as a solution to something, and the many worlds are not independent of each other, so if the theory is right, then it plays a direct role in our reality.
The idea you are trying to use, where all realities exist simultaneously should have no effect on our reality whatsoever whether it is right or wrong, and as such it is probably impossible for us to ever know, which is why it is not really a useful theory.