...THE CHARGE ITSELF?
in other words,
if i hold up a card marked "charge", i, in a sense, have a "charge"
but i can put the card down, and we both can exist independently
is the proton/electron like this? can it be separated from its charge, or have its charge taken from it, and still exist?
if not, and if the charge is integral to it, what is it other than the charge? and if its nothing without its charge, then does that not imply that it is THE CHARGE ITSELF?
(my confusion / curiosity stems from reading often that, "an electron/proton is a particle WITH a charge)