Well first of all you have to understand what the bible actually says.
The first man Adam was disloyal to God. It was a question of loyalty. Adam was perfect, but with free choice. We are not robots.God only wants people that want to follow him. Because Adam lost his life and perfection he passed that on to alll men. Becasue God cares for man, he give him length of time to go his own way. But warned throughout the bible of the results. We see that today, and throught mans history.
Now God cared for man so much that he gave his Son Jesus, life, to ransom back the perfect life lost. Think about this, would you give up your son for that lives of others? That is what God did.
So any deaths or any pain or suffering, is totally from Satan's and mans hands . No one elses. Satan took on the rulership of mankind when Adam followed him , instead of God.
The bible was written about the people of those times but is for the people that came after the bible was written.
Everything we need to know about God is in the bible.
After Jesus, Christians were not to learn war anymore. We have the example in Jesus. That means that Chrsitians that get involved in governments and wars etc, are not following God.. They are what the bible calls false worshipers. Satan is the ruler of the world, and as such includes governments, and religions.( includeing Christendom.)
So what we are looking at, in this world is casued by Satan and man, not God. He never want this for us.
So what the means is, if some are not for God they are agianst him. And all the mess we see is thier own fault.