And, according to your saying, the "shared"(Actually, it's not shared) electron in ionic bonding is pulled by a very strong force and can only move around one atom(like moon doesn't move around the sun, but the earth). Then, the electron is thought to not be shared by two atoms.
Isn't this?
Covalent bond exist when the force that pulled the electron is not strong enough to prevent the electron orbiting around two atoms.Isn't this?
I think I am able to imagine these particle world by attraction forces like gravity!