the cause of most homosexuals is childhood sexual abuse, it is very clear to me and i hope to make it clear to you, so you can stop harming me
when i was about 35 my brother came out and told me he was sexually abused as a child and he added that i was there also, but the thing is, that i have no memory of it. my brother told me that because he had just found out i was gay, and at the time i was more wrapped up in the feeling of being free that my brother knew my secret, being gay, so i didnt think at that time that sexual abuse caused me to be gay, i checked with my mother and she said that i was to young to remember the sexual abuse, me and m brother had been though.
so time went by, suddenly i decided to investigate, and the fact that i have no memory and but i do have most of the symtoms of sexual abuse,(other than being gay) it is really clear that the sexual abuse caused me to be gay.
ok so you dissagree with me, therefore if you do not agree that sexual abuse caused my homosexualality then,,,,, you are saying it is ok to sexually abuse children,, because,,, if i had no memory then i have no pain, no harm has come, i cant remember what happened, so therefore, what are my symtoms, (many and it is depressing)
my mother just thought, because this was a long time ago and different times, that if there is no memory of the event then nothing is going to happen,, ah haa!! look up Carl Jung and you will find that it has been proven that our subconscieness mind takes in things ten times faster then our conscienious mind does, and the subconscienious mind can figure out things on its own too. therefore i have great realization of what happened, and of course we all know how the childs mind molds in to place at the age of three and four years
so there i am, two and three years old, and am i telling you that any of this is my fault,,, no it is not, it was a pedifile, i was having sex before i could remember, so when someone calls me gay fag,it had been horrible because i blamed myself, because that is what society does, but now, all i see is a little boy learning about sex from a pedifle. Sexual abuse is a very bad thing and affects more than people think, it a whole life thing that only took, God know how long for that pedile, but i am a survior.
i dont have all the answers, but this is one of them,, when if found all this out, a great burden was lifted, i acually felt lighter, so i hope you are not going to one of those ingnorant , and i do need feedback, who dont know what they are taking about,
i was sexually abused and i believe it caused me to be gay although i have no memory of the abuse,
my brother told me that him and i were sexually abused when i was three and four years old, my mother confirmed it and said i was to young to remember
if the sexual abuse did not cause me to be gay then one could say that childhood sexual abuse is ok if the child is too young to remember, however, there is me
i had all the symtoms of childhood sexual abuse, but the symtoms came from blaming everything on me, that i made myself gay, as society does that to young men,
so i was started at age three, and we all know how the mind is molded at that age, and read some Carl Jung too.
you guys are mostly wasting time and not understanding, sexual abuse is a very powerfull thing to happen to anyone, and does last a lifetime, i have not all the answers, however,how could anyone dissagree with me,, i was only a small child and he was a pedifile, and this answer is for sure the one that set me free and healed, otherwise it is confusing, please reply
