OK. Let me further clarify. Before oxygen was discovered, there was a competing theory called the phlogiston theory. The phlogiston theory seemed to explain the same phenomena as the competing theory of oxygen, but in a different way. To explain combustion, it was postulated that some substances contain phlogiston and when burned in a closed atmosphere, the air becomes saturated with phlogiston and so combustion stops. Rather, we know what is happening is that the oxygen runs out and that is what stops combustion. Not the overabundance of one substance, but the lack of another. One theory was confirmed in the physical world and the other was not. Surely there was a time when both theories were accepted as different views of the way the world worked, but since they were mutually exclusive, they could not both be true. I see this as the same with particle versus wave/particle duality. Theories that postulate that electrons are particles are mutually exclusive from theories that postulate that electrons are particles and waves. Both theories can not be true. Certainly wave mechanics can be used to describe particles, but are they really waves? Incredibly complex epicycles were used by Ptolemy to accurately describe the mathematical motion of the heavens to support his Earth-centered galaxy, but that does not mean that his system was just as physically relevant as Galileo's sun-centered system even though the math was the same, does it? One theory was physically meaningful, the other was only mathematically meaningful, even though both seemed to accurately describe the motion of the heavens. In a similar fashion, the modern math that is being used to describe electrons as only particles, while completely ignoring their wavefunctions, is much simpler and is currently the most promising area of molecular computation (density functional theory). Wave/particle duality (Psi) describes the atomic orbitals with spatial coordinates that result in standing waves, with areas of positive amplitude and areas of negative amplitude. How are we to physically think of "negative amplitude space"? Rather, if we take the absolute value of the square of psi, then we will obtain the probability density of the electron (in fact, one can also obtain the probability density of the electron without reference to the wavefunction). The shape of the probability density is nearly identical to the shape of the atomic orbitals and it has physical meaning. We could design an experiment to measure the probability density, but we couldn't design an experiment to measure the wavefunction.
PS. I'm not a particle physicist, I'm an organic chemist.