Thanks for the responses .
From your responses I think I am starting to understand that the issue might be more in the way I am thinking about the problem. I guess classical mechanics is not a good way to visualise any type of quantum theory. I need to expand my classical mind
Although we have no full quantum theory of gravity we accept the experimental results of the attraction of particles that give us an insight to the different world on a quantum scale (Charges and spin causing attraction).
Does this mean QM and GR or both are compatible theories in explaining forces including gravity? I was under the impression that they both are unable to be correct. GR breaks down at the big bang and QM violates some of the fundamental principles of GR such as quantum entanglement information transferring faster than the speed of light.
Cheers,
Mozilla