It is not the mathematical side I don't understand: assuming that space is evenly filled with galaxies, one can suppose that they are like particles in an infinite volume and approximately constitute a cosmological fluid. So you get a matter density, which you can integrate over the volume to obtain the amount of matter contained in it. Since the volume is infinite, the matter is too. That is perfectly clear to me. The problem is that I feel uneasy with a universe of infinite matter, not because there is no center. I just think that it is not physical and it should be possible to show some contradiction. I first thought that it should lead to Olber's paradox. But it doesn't because there the universe is static while here it is expanding. As can be read in Hartle's book Gravity, light rays can only reach us from a certain distance in a expanding infinite universe, so even if the sky contained an infinite number of stars their light that reaches us would be finite and the sky would not be bright but dark.
My point of view is rather philosophical. I very like a spherical closed universe because it is similar to Earth's surface on which we live. Its volume is also expanding but finite as well as the matter in it. Such a universe is much more familiar to me than an infinite one with infinite matter. Physically spoken, matter cannot be infinite in my opinion even though mathematically it can. It's just a subjecive feeling. But I am sure that someone will once find an argument against infinite universes or experimental data will show it.
As can be read on Wikipedia: The Shape of the Universe "The latest research shows that even the most powerful future experiments (like SKA, Planck..) will not be able to distinguish between flat, open and closed universe if the true value of cosmological curvature parameter is smaller than 10−4. If the true value of the cosmological curvature parameter is larger than 10−3 we will be able to distinguish between these three models even now." If the universe is infinite flat, the cosmological curvature parameter is exactly 1. It seems to me that it is very unlikely that a continuous physical parameter can exactly be a natural number. And with the dark matter that is more and more discovered, the cosmological curvature parameter, which in fact is made up of densities, is more likely to be > 1 than < 1. In this case the universe is spherical. I think this eventualty would have pleased most Greek and medieval philosophers...