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  1. herme3

    Dating

    How does it still apply? You claimed I was "ranting" and "moaning". I asked you to show me where I did that in a recent post in this thread, and you still haven't answered my question.
  2. herme3

    Dating

    How was I ranting or moaning? I did a little ranting when I first started this thread, but not in any of my recent posts.
  3. herme3

    Dating

    I would not "run for the hills" when the first problem comes along. I know that all couples in a relationship will have occasional fights and arguments. The real problem starts when an argument goes on for days, and brings down the relationship. Due to my personality, I don't think that would ever happen. If I was arguing with a girl that I really cared about, I would never let it bring down the relationship. I would realize that the girl is so much more important than whatever stupid issue we are fighting about. I would get on my knees, hold her hand, and beg for her forgiveness. Then I would buy her some flowers and take her out to a nice dinner. The real problem is that most people want to think they are always right, especially guys. Most guys want a relationship to go their way, and often don't care about the girl. They want to have full control over her, and they often won't admit when they are wrong. I know. I think the best part of a relationship would be finding out how complex the person you love really is. It would be great to know the other person, even if you realize the other person isn't exactly like you. If you really love the other person, you would accept these differences. What do you mean? I knew the girl for over two years before I even thought about asking her out on a date. I watched her be so nice to other people, and I've seen other people be mean to her. It's just not fair. I care about her, and she deserves someone who will be nice to her. I don't want to go on a date with every girl who is nice to me. There are lots of girls who are nice to me, but I've only wanted to go on a date with one girl.
  4. herme3

    Dating

    If you have feelings, don't you want to find someone special who will care about you? Don't you want to have a happy relationship, and know that someone will always be there for you? If you do, don't you think that most girls would want the same things from a guy? How do you explain all of the couples that stay together until the day one of them dies? It's because they found the right person for each other. They found true love, and they show that it isn't just some "romance comedy". I think you are the one who needs to mature. When did I say that women are like robots? I never said that all women have good personalities. In fact, I think this thread shows that I think the complete opposite. I said that a guy needs to find the right person for him. I also said that I found only one girl that I would ever want to go on a date with. How am I trapped or confused by anybody's beauty? I keep talking about the girl's personality, not her beauty. Didn't that girl mean anything else to you? You are looking at relationships in such a shallow way. Didn't you care about her feelings? Didn't you want to know her personality better? Perhaps you should have taken the time to see if you have similar personalities and interests. She would have meant so much more to you if you had gotten to really know her, and you might have cared about her.
  5. herme3

    Dating

    How would a meaningful relationship be unhealthy? If a girl is a nice and caring person, and a guy is a nice and caring person, what would be wrong with them having a close relationship with each other? Wouldn't they care about each other and have a happy relationship?
  6. herme3

    Dating

    Your post is nothing close to what silkworm said. He basically said that there aren't any girls that have good personalities. He seems to think that the only good thing about a girl is the way she looks. Aren't you offended by his comments? I believe that there is so much more to a girl than just her looks, no matter how beautiful she is. Girls are humans, so there are some with good personalities and others with bad personalities. If you are a good guy who is in a relationship with a girl with a good personality, I believe that she will care about you and love you with all her heart. Isn't that so much more important than just being in a relationship with a girl who looks good? Silkworm also said that humans are just toys that use each other to reproduce. That is just wrong. I don't even want to think about having kids at the moment. I just want to be happy, and not feel lonely anymore. I want to know that a special girl who I love and care about also loves and cares about me. That is what I think true love should be about.
  7. herme3

    Dating

  8. herme3

    Other People

    Calm down... I'm not crazy. One of the main reasons why my first post might sound crazy is because I typed it around 1:00am. I wasn't really thinking as clearly as I normally do. Here is a non-crazy translation of my first post:
  9. herme3

    Dating

    If I did, then she probably would be mad at me! Trust me, she looks like an angel. Why would she go on a date with other guys, but not me? Is there something about me that I need to change? Perhaps she just doesn't know me very well. How would it ruin our friendship? She will always be my friend even if she never wants to go out on a date. I don't think she would start hating me just because I ask her out on a date, would she? I actually told her that I liked her a long time ago. Later, she asked me if I wanted to go see a movie with her, but then she realized that she had to work. She's never mentioned going to see a movie again. Whenever I mention going to see a movie, she usually tries to change the subject. There was another time when she wrote me a note asking if I was going to a dance, and if I still liked her. I'm not sure if she wanted to go with me or not, but it didn't really matter. It was only a few days before the dance, and I couldn't have bought a ticket because they weren't selling them anymore. This was almost a year before I asked her out on a date, and she said "no". Of course there are other nice girls out there. There is just something special about the girl I was talking about. I'm not sure how she is special, but she just is. Maybe it's just because I've known her for a long time.
  10. herme3

    Dating

    She is my best friend, but I'm not sure if she would consider me to be her friend. She probably just considers me to be another person in her school. She is my best friend because she is the only person who is always nice to me. However I don't think it is anything special that she is nice to me. She the type of person who is nice to everyone. She has lots of friends who she probably cares about more than me. While her friendship is very important to me, I doubt it means anything to her. I could die today, and I doubt she would really care. By tomorrow, she probably would have already forgotten about me. Yes, but she is a very special person. She has such a wonderful personality, and she deserves to be with someone who will treat her with the respect she deserves. Yes, I do think she is the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. However, the real reason why I want to go out with her is because I care about her and her feelings.
  11. herme3

    Yay!

  12. herme3

    Dating

    I don't think she ever picks the guy, I think guys usually come to her because she is so beautiful. The problem is that the guys only seem to care about how she looks, and not about her feelings. The guy will pretend to be someone who is caring, and she will start to trust him. Then the guy's true personality comes out and he ends up hurting her feelings. I'm tired of seeing guys hurt her feelings, because she has such a wonderful personality. She is probably the most caring person I've ever met, but none of the guys seem to care about that. Well, I don't think she would ever want to be with a guy who isn't nice and kind. The problem is that the guy will pretend to be nice and kind, and then a few months later his personality will change. I don't think I have equal value. She seems like such a great person, and she also has lots of friends. All of her friends trust her, and know they can count on her if they ever need anything. Nobody would count on me for anything. Why would she come to me? She didn't even want to go on a date with me when I asked her. I don't think that will work. She has gone on dates with lots of other guys, but she won't go on a date with me. I think I need to figure out why, and then see how I can change to become a better person.
  13. herme3

    Dating

    Well, I had the turn around in this thread a few weeks ago when bluesmudge figured out what I was really thinking about. I was trying to say it, but it just came out as a rant against dating.
  14. herme3

    Other People

    I know, and I just realized that I wasn't thinking too clearly. It sometimes happens when I spend too much time in my bedroom over the weekend. I'm back in school today, so I guess I just realized how crazy my post sounds. What I meant to say was that there are so many people out there, and many of them could be a lot like you, and have similar interests. However, you never get a chance to meet them because they just walk by you without noticing.
  15. herme3

    Dating

    That might not be a very good idea. When I wrote this, I had something else on my mind, but for some reason it all came out as a rant against dating. It's crazy because even though I've never gone on a date, I have nothing against dating. I even used to own an online dating service. For some reason, it took several months for someone to figure out what was really on my mind. I'm not even sure if I knew what was on my mind during the 3 months that I was ranting like an idiot... Callipygous and everyone else who had to listen to my ranting must think I'm crazy!
  16. herme3

    Other People

    Wow, why did I write this? I guess I spent the whole day alone in my room while using the computer, and I wasn't thinking very clearly. I know what I was trying to say, but it came out a little weird...
  17. Well, that was my question. Is this theory compatible with modern scientific facts?
  18. herme3

    Other People

    I'll try to talk make a few friends when I go to college, but that really wasn't the main thing that I was talking about. I was talking more about complete strangers that you see in public places, and just walking in the hallway at school. These are people who you've never met before, and you know you might never get to know them. These are the people that I feel most disconnected with. I'm talking about when I'm in a crowded place, but I'm not around any friends or family members. An example would be when I'm in the crowded hallways of my school and walking between classes. I'm completely surrounded by other people who are my same age, and might even have the same interests as me. However, they all seem to be in another place. If I had a chance, I might be able to become somebody's best friend. However, nobody even notices that I'm there. They are either talking to each other, or just looking somewhere else. It usually seems like they don't know I'm there. However, they all seem to have some type of connection with each other. They are all part of the same school. They are all teenagers. They look at each other, they smile at each other, and they talk to each other. I could be in the exact same hallway, but I don't feel like I'm a part of them.
  19. I don't think you all are reading the whole article. The first part about God just creating the light, and the second part about Setterfield were just examples. The article said that neither one of these are true. My post is about the third part of the article. I'm wondering if the laws of physics will allow this to be possible:
  20. I had a conversation with my preacher about Genesis. My preacher told me that because of the scientific evidence, we probably shouldn't take Genesis literally. He said that the main point of Genesis was to say that God created everything, and it isn't to teach how and when he created everything. He said that the original Hebrew version of Genesis is actually a poem, and it wasn't written to be a scientific explanation of what happened.
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    Other People

    Have you ever been in a crowded place and felt like you were the only person around? When I'm surrounded by people that I don't know, it sometimes feels like I'm looking at them from so far away. It almost seems like they aren't part of my world. It seems like they can't see me, and like they don't know I'm there. It's like they are part of a world that I'm not. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I always feel so disconnected from people that I don't know. When I'm in a restaurant, shopping mall, public park, or any other public place, I feel like I'm disconnected from everyone. When I'm in school, I feel disconnected from everyone except for the few people that I sometimes talk to. It's like people are walking beside me in the hallway, but they don't know that I'm there. However, these people seem to notice each other all the time. They look at each other, smile at each other, and sometimes talk to each other. However, none of these people will even look directly at me. There are a few people in my school that I sometimes talk to. These people seem different from everyone else. I don't feel disconnected from them. I only have about one month left at school, and then I'm going to college. I don't think any of the people I sometimes talk to will be at college with me. I will probably have that disconnected feeling towards everyone. I think I might feel lonely in a place where nobody knows I'm there. I will see lots of new people, but they won't seem like they are in the same place as me. It will seem like they are far away. Why does it seem like other people can see each other, but they can't see me?
  22. As far as I know, there was no religion that claimed giant space aliens live on the moon. To use as an example, let's just pretend that it existed, and pretend that it was widely accepted and believed. In that case, science would be able to prove that the religion was not true after it could prove no giant aliens live on the moon. Perhaps we can rule out some of the modern religions by using the same technique. Although it may not be as obvious as giant space aliens on the moon, there could be parts of modern religions that science can prove is not true. Since most religions say that 100% of their religious text is true, proving that one part of the religion is false can prove that the entire religion is false.
  23. How can that be observed with a telescope? Most telescopes can't see a clear view of anything that is outside of our solar system. We don't even have a clear picture of Pluto yet. I never meant that all scientists practice a particular religion. I only meant that most scientists don't use science to study a religion. A religion is basically just a belief about how the world was created, and how it works. Science is just the study of how the world was created, and how it works. Therefore, I don't understand why science can't be used to study religion. While science may not be able to prove the existence of God, it can look at other parts of the religion. Let's pretend that there is a religion that starts out similar to Christian beliefs. Just imagine that the religious text starts out by saying a divine being created the Earth. Then it continued to say that the divine being created all the life on Earth. So far, science probably can't prove anything supporting or opposing this religion. However, later in the religious text it says that this divine being created giant space aliens on the moon. This is where science would be able to prove the religion is not true.
  24. If a person is traveling away from you, you can still see them. Even though you won't see their face, you will still see the back of them. You will know someone is there, and you might be able to tell who they are. Even though light has different properties than matter, isn't there anyway that you could see the "back" of light? Even if it isn't visible light, couldn't there be some type of energy that is left behind? If we can detect this energy, couldn't we discover a way to piece it together and tell what is in the light?
  25. Why are we only able to see light that is traveling towards us? For example, if you look into a flashlight, you will see the light that is coming from it. However, if you look in the direction the light is going, you will not see the light going away from you. The only way you will see the light is if it comes back to you by reflecting off of another surface. In the same way, we are only able to see light coming towards Earth from distant objects. We are unable to see the light that is coming from Earth and going out into space. Would it be possible to somehow capture light that is leaving Earth and look at it? Could we create some type of telescope that can see the light as it travels away from us? This would be very helpful in solving crimes. What if a crime happened one year ago, and we could somehow look at a reflection of Earth that is one light-year away? Couldn't this help solve the crime?
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