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Thanks. I'm really good at creating web sites, but I've just never used MySpace before. I hope I can figure out how to get my design in my profile, becuase I think it's much better than any of the MySpace templates. What makes you think that? Frames are awesome! I own a web site that will make frame pages for people. I own http://www.myiframes.com so I am a frames expert! Thank you! I will try it when I get home, and I'll let you know if it works.

So, is there a way that I can put the design, pictures, and text from http://lost2destiny.homestead.com on my MySpace page? I spent a lot of time creating it, and I think it looks much better than any of the MySpace templates I could find.

I would like to frame my own profile on my MySpace page. The page I want to frame is http://lost2destiny.homestead.com and I already wrote the HTML code: However, I do not know where to put the code. I would like the frame to replace where you would normally put your information, but I don't want it to cover up where other people can leave comments. Can anybody tell me how to do this? Thank you.

I've been thinking about how much each little thing we do can change how things happen for someone else. As you may know, Alex Ostrovsky has just purchased the 1,000,000,000th song from Apple's iTunes service. The guy has just won a new computer, 10 iPods, and a $10,000 music card. Also, his name has been mentioned on CNN, and will probably be written in many magazines and web sites. He must feel very famous at the moment. There have been so many times when I couldn't decide if I really wanted to buy a certain song from iTunes. I will listen to the preview of a song several times, and then I decide whether to purchase it or not. It is often a difficult decision because I sometimes can't tell if I like the song or not. I've just realized that if I had not decided to purchase one of the songs that I did, the guy that is now being talked about on the news would have purchased the 999,999,999th song. He would not be on CNN, he would not be mentioned on all the web sites, and he would not have won the prize. Somebody else would have! I just think this is an amazing thing to think about...

Please tell us a reason why we should be happy. I could have given flowers to every girl in my school, and I'm sure I still wouldn't get a hug... I think the club is quite small. A teacher once asked us how old we were when we went on our first date. I was the only one in the class who was unable to answer, because I've never gone on a date. That was quite a depressing moment...

Yes, maybe things will get better in the future. Everything just seems so dark and gloomy at the moment. I don't have anyone to wish Happy Valentine's day to, or give flowers to. I'm sorry to hear that. Valentine's Day seems like a time when bad things happen. I hope your dad will get better soon. It isn't that easy. I think I mentioned this in another thread, but most guys would go on a date with any girl they meet. However, there is only one girl that I've ever wanted to go on a date with in my entire life.

Valentine's Day has to be the most depressing time of the year. Everybody is giving each other flowers, balloons, candy, and cards. They are saying how much they care about each other. Today, I received no flowers, no balloons, no candy, and no cards. Nobody told me that they cared about me. In fact, nobody really even talked to me today. I suppose I am just one of those people who were meant to be lonely. I never really decided to live a lonely life. In fact, I tried to ask a girl to go out on a date with me, but she just said no. I guess it was wrong for me to ask her. I know I'm not a great person, so she will be much happier without me. I could also say that I lost my job earlier this month. I was an online investor, and I was going to be making over $70,000 a year just in time to graduate from high school. Everything was going great until the beginning of February. Then suddenly everything just started going down. Perhaps it is some type of curse from Valentine's Day. Anyway, now I have no income, and only about $3.00 in my bank account. I still can't really believe that this has happened. I'm still trying to advertise some programs that are now gone. I've spent the past week advertising a link that went to a Site Error 404 page. It looks like I need to get a job. I guess I probably won't need much. I can just find a small run-down apartment. That should be enough for me...

Guys seem much more likely to dump a girl. Half the time they are too lazy to do that, and they just expect the girl to figure it out when she sees him with a new girlfriend. Actually, my friends never tell me about their relationships. They sometimes talk about their relationships with other girls, but I try not to listen to their conversations because I know they aren't talking to me. They are my friends, and spying on their conversations doesn't seem right to me. I get all my info by spying on the conversations of total strangers! Just kidding... I never try to listen to anybody's conversations when they aren't talking to me. However, I do sometimes pick up little pieces of conversations and I've put all the pieces together. I think I have a good image of the typical relationship and breakup. Some stuff is just common sense. For example, I will often see a guy and a girl walking around holding hands. Then one day, the girl is crying and the guy is happily holding hands with another girl. It doesn't take a genius to figure out what happened. Even if the girl doesn't go mentally insane, I would still feel bad about hurting her feelings. Even if I was the one who wanted to breakup, I think I would hate myself for breaking someone's heart. Also, I think I would have great difficulty recovering from a breakup. I spend my whole life in my room anytime that I'm not in school. If I got a girlfriend and we started going places together, it would be very difficult going back to my old life if we broke up. Now that I think about it, that is probably the real reason why I'm being so careful to find the perfect person before leaving my old life behind. I forgot to mention that there was a time that I wanted to ask someone out on a date. I had known her for a few years, and she had just broken up with her boyfriend. I spent months trying to ask her, but I just couldn't do it. At the time, I had absolutely no friends, and I even ate lunch at an empty table. My self-esteem was just so low, and she seemed perfect compared to me. After about 3 months, she found a new boyfriend. After that, I was feeling depressed for a while. I decided to write her a letter saying everything that was on my mind. I can't remember what I wrote, but she later invited me to sit with her and her friends at lunch. Now she is my best friend. She still has a boyfriend, but that doesn't matter anymore. Just the fact that I have friends to sit with at lunch has made my life so much happier. Now, I just want to wait until I find another perfect person before I think about asking anyone to go on a date. I don't think there is any reason why I should hurry and go on a date with the first person I see, or the first person who asks me out on a date. I already found one perfect person without looking, I'm sure that I will eventually find another one.

Go hunt for the Firefox that has been going through Bill Gate's garbage at nights.

The rabbis run away, and George Bush thinks he is alone when suddenly Bill Gates starts rising from the dead...

Are you sure about that? Normally I always see guys telling their girlfriends what to do, and then they get mad when everything doesn't go their way. It usually seems like girls usually give up their "divine right" just so their boyfriends don't start acting immature and start yelling at them. I think that most guys really don't care about being with other male friends. They wouldn't go anywhere they wouldn't want to just so they can hang around other guys. However, a decent guy would want to spend as much time as possible with his girlfriend, so he might go somewhere that she would want to go. I don't think it is because he wants her approval, but just because he wants to spend some time with her. I'm sure that most girls go places they don't want to because they want to be with their boyfriends. For example, maybe a guy really likes football, and his girlfriend doesn't. However, the girl might decide to go to a football game just to spend time with him. I think that boyfriends and girlfriends should equally respect each other from the first time they meet. Neither one should have to earn the other person's respect. If one of them can't respect the other person, then maybe they shouldn't be together. There are only certain circumstances where you should have this attitude. If you have a girlfriend that treats you really bad, then don't worry about her because there are other girls out there. However, don't act like you can be mean to a nice girl simply because you can replace her if you ever lose her. That just wouldn't be right. I've never asked a girl about what type of a boyfriend she would want. However, they don't seem to be impressed by a guy who acts dominate, and like he is the strongest guy in the world. A girl usually just seems to want someone who will care about her, and always be there for her. Unlike what many people here think, I believe that a girl just wants to find the perfect guy, and never breakup with him. It is difficult to have this discussion when there aren't any girls who are posting replies, but I believe that a breakup is much easier for a guy than a girl. What do you consider to be a good looking person? I think that if someone is really nice to you, you might subconsciously think she looks better than someone who is mean to you. I disagree with that. I think emotional strength depends on the person, not if they are a man or a woman. I don't think a date should be used to find someone. I think you should wait until after you find someone before going on a date. You should find someone just by being friends with people. Then you will get to know different personalities before committing yourself to someone by asking her to go on a date with you. I don't think you should focus on trying to get a ton of phone numbers, or going on dates with lots of different girls. You can make friends with different girls, but when you find someone that you like, just focus on going on a date with that one girl.

Like I said, I think a lot of girls would agree with me. Just take my advice... Wait until you find a girl without a boyfriend that you would want to go on a date with. Walk over and start a friendly conversation. Don't mention dating, or going anywhere. If you are still in school, maybe sit with her at lunch. Just get to know her for a while. Also, add little compliments to make her feel happy. Don't lie just to make her feel good, but if you think she is a nice person, tell her. After a while, if you still like her, maybe mention that you are a lonely person. She might try to ask you out on a date... Hearing that type of crap really ticks me off!!! A girl is a person, just like you. Nobody is in charge. Treat her with respect and make her feel like she is important. Don't try to make her think you are better than her. It will make her feel weak and maybe even a little afraid of you. That is just wrong.

Yes, the girl is all emotional and upset. The guy is walking around happily with his new girlfriend. Doesn't that say something?

Sure you would. You would have found the right person. You would meet her, start being her friend, get to know her, then ask her out on a date, and then eventually marry her. However, you wouldn't have broken so many other girls' hearts before you met her. No, but I know a lot of people who have been in relationships and they know what it was like. I feel like I'm having trouble getting through to all of you. The problem is that most of the people here are typical guys. If more girls read this thread, they would probably agree with me and this discussion would make me look like a caring person instead of the crazy hermit that most of you probably think I am.

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First, I don't have any girlfriends. I just have some friends that are girls. I doubt their boyfriends would appreciate you saying they are my girlfriends. Also, whenever a girl is talking about why she broke up with an ex-boyfriend, it is always because the guy did something stupid, or because the guy just found another girlfriend. That's just how most guys are. They are the ones that usually start the relationship, then they find another girlfriend after a while. The guy just goes with the new girlfriend, and leaves the old girlfriend with a broken heart. The guy doesn't even care, but the girl is really sad for days, weeks, or even months. I'm not saying that you are like that. I'm just saying that is how most guys are. Nothing, in fact I think it is important that you like the way someone looks before you date her. I'm just saying that you shouldn't date someone only because of the way she looks. You should judge more on somebody's personality. Don't just think about finding someone for one date, think about finding someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with. THAT'S JUST PLAIN SICK!!!! I really hope you really didn't mean to say that. It sounded like you are more concerned about seeing how many girls you can date than actually finding someone that you want to stay with forever.

A nerd was about to eat me when a giant ape came and rescued me.

The majority of girls are much nicer and more caring than the majority of guys. I think you should meet people by becoming their friend, not instantly asking them out on a date. If they seem like a good person, then you can ask them out on a date. Asking a total stranger to go on a date with you just sounds wrong. It sounds like you just like the way she looks, and don't have any interest in getting to know her personality. That's because most guys don't act like they have feelings, and don't care about anybody else's feelings either. The girls are being smart, and want to know the guy before they go on a date. My guess is that if any girls came into this thread, they would probably agree with my opinions. Usually because the guy does something stupid. I've never seen a girl be sad because a guy won't go on a date with her. Girls are usually sad when they are already dating someone, and he wants to breakup with her. Ok... So the girl gets mad and thinks I'm mean. I would rather make a girl mad at me, instead of breaking her heart when we breakup later. You are also forgetting that I don't know the girl, so I don't want to go out on a date with her anyway. Right now, there is only one girl in the whole world that I would go on a date with, and she already has a boyfriend that she seems to be happy with. If they ever did breakup, I wouldn't be able to go on a date with her if I'm dating some other girl that I don't even care about.

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Bill Gates ran system restore on himself, and used his powers to smash the lava lamp into little cheeseburgers, and then we were peacefully eating lunch together until...

I can predict what happens in a relationship based on what other people say. Well, if someone was already unstable it would probably be more difficult for them if they breakup with someone. Do you think that is a good thing? A guy shouldn't be "aggressive" so he can get a date with the first girl he can find. It is about finding the right person, and caring about her feelings. What I meant is that I didn't create this thread because I want a girlfriend, or because I want some advice. I created it so we can discuss my advice, and so other SFN members can give dating advice to each other. I don't need advice about dating because I'm not dating anyone. Ok, let's just imagine that I start dating some girl that I don't care about at all. Suddenly, I get a chance to go on a date with someone that I do care about. However, I can't because I'm already dating the other girl... Stop acting like you can wave a magic wand to make your perfect girl appear. You always have to wait for the perfect girl, so you won't lose your chance when you do meet her. I'm giving my advice because people don't seem to understand how bad many boyfriend/girlfriend relationships really are. So many guys treat their girlfriends so bad, and nobody seems to think that is wrong. Of course, we seem to have gotten away from the original point I was trying to make. I never imagined that this would turn into another, "Herme3 is crazy and needs a girlfriend" thread... No... I've said no to girls who asked me out on a date because I didn't really know them. Why would they care? There's nothing special about me. Also, I've never seen a girl get upset just because a guy refused to go on a date with her. The only times they seem to be upset is if they breakup with someone they are already dating.

If you were anything like me, you wouldn't even ask someone out on a date unless you liked them for a long time. I wouldn't go on a date with someone simply because she was a girl. What would happen if you jumped off a cliff? Would it hurt if you don't die? I guess you better go jump off a cliff so you will know for sure before you try to guess the answer to my question. How would you know whether or not she was already unstable? Well, I'm 18 too. I've never had a girlfriend. You were just lucky to have the chance, you might not get that chance again if you abandon the girlfriend that you have. Well, now you have a goal in life. Work hard so you can get back to your perfect life in California. I know these must be difficult times for you, but you can't give up and act like you will find another girlfriend someday. You seem to have found the perfect person, so it is your destiny to be with her. Some people are just destined to be alone. You now have the choice of following the path to loneliness, or fighting the circumstances to get back to your one chance of living a happy life. I didn't create this thread because I want a girlfriend. I'll only want a girlfriend after I find a girl that I want to date. I keep saying that there is nobody that I would want to date who is looking for a boyfriend. I came here to give my opinion about dating, and talk about how wrong many guys treat their girlfriends. Why does everyone keep trying to give me advice? I'm the one that's giving the advice here.

Then I saw the Linux penguin and Bill Gates jump out of the computer, then they began to fight.

How would you know whether or not she has become attached to you yet? Can you read her mind? Also, even complete imbeciles have feelings. That is exactly what I've been saying since I started this thread. Perhaps we both have the same opinion about dating, but we are just saying it differently. Ok, so what's the point in dating someone? If you know you are going to breakup, why date her? I can't even begin to comprehend why someone would do that. If you breakup with someone, the only way to erase the bad memories is if you become friends again after the breakup. I can only imagine how someone must feel when they breakup with the first person they ever cared about, no matter how peaceful the breakup may seem. Just think about it, a girl falls in love with a guy, and she starts thinking that he is perfect and they will always be together. He is the only person that she ever loved, and then suddenly he decides to breakup with her. Suddenly she feels like she could never replace him, and she will never find someone else. She now feels like she will spend the rest of her life alone. She will also probably blame herself for the breakup, and probably hate herself. Every morning when she wakes up, she will just think about how her life has no purpose, and nobody seems to love her anymore. Every time she sees another couple together, she will think about him and become even more depressed. Wow... You just went from the perfect life to a totally miserable and depressing life. Are you sure that your life in California wasn't just a wonderful dream? Why in the world did you decide to move? It sounds like you had found your perfect girl, and you just decided to abandon her. Did you live with your parents and they decided to move? If you are over the age of 18, I would just move back to California and live your perfect life again. Life is about pain and loneliness. If you somehow managed to find a happy life, I wouldn't give it up for anything. You will probably never get another chance to be happy. No, the only people that I usually talk to are girls. Although there are a few people that I talk to who are guys, other guys usually just make me mad! Girls always seem to be more intelligent and caring then most guys. Of course, I know several guys that seem to be intelligent and caring. It is just normally easier to have an intelligent conversation with a girl. Although I would never want to go on a date with most of the girls I talk to, I do enjoy being friends with them. Go on a date with who? The magical princess from the planet where nobody has boyfriends? I already said that I don't want to date anyone who is looking for a boyfriend. I'm not the type of guy who wants to go on a date with every girl I see. She will have to be someone very special.