ausguerila Posted April 13, 2017 Posted April 13, 2017 Does anyone know how a straight male does not have any arousal at a strip club, while viewing a pornographic video does?
Function Posted April 13, 2017 Posted April 13, 2017 Unappropriate extrapolation and overgeneralisation. 2
ausguerila Posted April 13, 2017 Author Posted April 13, 2017 A large dose of horny goat weed was consumed as well before arriving at the strip club and a top up dose was taken while there and there was no arousal. Meanwhile, a pornographic video invokes arousal easily.
DrP Posted April 13, 2017 Posted April 13, 2017 I've never seen the attraction to seeing a woman undress that you can't touch on a stage whilst you are surrounded by dozens of leary letchy blokes all cheering and jeering.. Whilst the video you suggest was probably viewed at home in private - your report doesn't surprise me much.
ausguerila Posted April 14, 2017 Author Posted April 14, 2017 The picture you are thinking of DrP was not how it was. I even tried a one on one and felt no arousal. Why would this occur?
DrP Posted April 14, 2017 Posted April 14, 2017 I do not know - maybe because you know it's not real? (OK - the porn vid isn't real either, but it in a way it is as they are really doing it). The strip isn't real - also, is it possible you were nervous in front of the pro stripper? Or tired? Or just not in the mood? I wouldn't worry too much about it, whatever the reason - people have too many hang ups about sexuality - just go with the flow and do what you like/want or whatever comes natural. Enjoy life my friend, it's too short for hang ups.
koti Posted April 14, 2017 Posted April 14, 2017 Does anyone know how a straight male does not have any arousal at a strip club, while viewing a pornographic video does? In general, it's a bad idea to have sex with a stripper and your penis seems to know that. You should be grateful for having a wise penis. 2
Bender Posted April 14, 2017 Posted April 14, 2017 I seriously doubt I would get aroused by a stripper. I think I would be too uncomfortable. Don't worry about it.
StringJunky Posted April 14, 2017 Posted April 14, 2017 Does anyone know how a straight male does not have any arousal at a strip club, while viewing a pornographic video does? One presses your buttons and the other doesn't.
Phi for All Posted April 14, 2017 Posted April 14, 2017 Some prefer the hunt, and aren't enthused by restaurants. 1
ausguerila Posted April 17, 2017 Author Posted April 17, 2017 One presses your buttons and the other doesn't. Precisely. So why would I have no arousal from a stripper when I find them more arousing than a pornographic video?
StringJunky Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 Precisely. So why would I have no arousal from a stripper when I find them more arousing than a pornographic video? Possibly, you like the stripper but not the company of other watchers.
koti Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 Possibly, you like the stripper but not the company of other watchers. Or the security staff, or the money involved, etc.
ausguerila Posted April 18, 2017 Author Posted April 18, 2017 Possibly, you like the stripper but not the company of other watchers. Or the security staff, or the money involved, etc. That's not the answer. I did feel something for a brief moment but it disappeared quickly in the same way I see a wife catching her husband at a place like that.
koti Posted April 18, 2017 Posted April 18, 2017 Actually, I was taught that love in any form except vanilla sex between a husband and wife is wrong, demoralized, and will result you burning in hell. I read the Bible, and I decided as long as they both agree on something it's fine. Trust your instincts on this and don't let religion play a part in your sexuality.
koti Posted April 18, 2017 Posted April 18, 2017 I have no problem thinking for myself. It's not an easy task to think for yourself against the people around you, especially if you come from a religious background. I wouldn't be so sure if you are strong enough to cope with that task.
ausguerila Posted April 19, 2017 Author Posted April 19, 2017 Perhaps you watch too much porn. Watching porn decreases your sensitivity to a social sex life, making the videos more appealing then actually developing a relationship with someone, even if it's just a one night stand. My recommendation would be to stop using porn for 3 months, then see if it turns you on again to go back to the strip club. I have tried this before. I am unsure why the act of consuming a large amount of horny goat weed keeps being overlooked.
ausguerila Posted April 20, 2017 Author Posted April 20, 2017 In addition to this. I woke up randomly through the night with a huge amount of pleasure. How would this happen from being sound asleep?
koti Posted April 20, 2017 Posted April 20, 2017 In addition to this. I woke up randomly through the night with a huge amount of pleasure. How would this happen from being sound asleep? I'll give you the benefit of the doubt that you are not trolling: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nocturnal_emission
Raider5678 Posted April 20, 2017 Posted April 20, 2017 https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nocturnal_emission Recently had a very awkward conversation about that.
koti Posted April 20, 2017 Posted April 20, 2017 Recently had a very awkward conversation about that. Perfectly normal function of every human body and mind.
Raider5678 Posted April 20, 2017 Posted April 20, 2017 Perfectly normal function of every human body and mind. Still awkward.
ausguerila Posted April 21, 2017 Author Posted April 21, 2017 No dream was has as I was awake right before this happening.
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