Do you feel the persons you care about actually don't care about you ? what will you do?

[StringJunky]

Why the unhappy things are always more than happy things in life ?

Because you choose to give them more impact or weight than the happy things. It's the same as seeing the glass as half empty. Unhappy things happening require effort to put you back on an even track whereas happy things are going in the right direction... unhappy things are work.

[fresh]

Frankly speaking, no unhappy things is quite a happy thing.

 

Unfortunately, there are some very unpleasant / troublesome things we have to face, and the problem is i can't deceive myself.

[dimreepr]

Unfortunately, there are some very unpleasant / troublesome things we have to face, and the problem is i can't deceive myself.

 

Like what?

[fresh]

 

Like what?

Job and difficult persons.

[dimreepr]

If you don't like your job/people then change it/them, don't say you can't because we always have a choice. whining about it won't solve anything.

[fresh]

i dont have choice now. ..it's complicated.

[dimreepr]

Of course you have a choice, fear often makes it seem complicated.

 

But if you really don't have a choice (slavery), then your only option is acceptance; either way you have a choice.

[fresh]

yes, you can change your job.

 

The most unfortunately thing is you can not change who your father is.

He is a tyrant and jerk.

[dimreepr]

yes, you can change your job.

 

The most unfortunately thing is you can not change who your father is.

He is a tyrant and jerk.

 

But you can decide/change who you decide to follow/be influenced by.

[fresh]

my poor mom....she has no choice. It breaks my heart.

Why some very nice ，docile and independent women have miserable marriage?