Who do I vote for to aid singles suffering involuntary celibacy

[ImplicitDemands]

5 hours ago, StringJunky said:

If it was normal, you wouldn't be here. Find that person you like, but don't judge those that don't fit your standards. If you want to look for a Dodo egg that is your choice, but don't blame everybody else for your failure to find one.

It took me a very long time to get in shape the first time I did it 5 years ago. Within two years of experiencing poverty for the first time it was 100% undone. I got this opportunity and I got hit hard, I messed up and I had to get sober, work my ass off, and still get back to where I was fitness wise those 5 years ago. 70 grueling pounds I was in the process of losing, improving in all areas intellectually, figure out things on my own sifting from the poor material I was given. And keeping my room extremely clean, cutting my own hair on top of all of the other grooming down to keeping all my tone-tails trimmed. And these moments where all of this is put together is rare, and yet I was still putting myself out there and actually getting rejected more than ever. Like I said it's rare for me to actually be at my peak for dating and it requires constant work, and that was all thrown in the trashcan for the fat of land who got lucky everywhere I looked. Now if I let myself go again, there you go it's all for nothing. Now I'm working on it not being such a brief window where I look my best and everything is clean and I have a car and can take someone (f the nonbinary lingo I mean a woman) places, buy them things, but even if I can lengthen that window this kind of stuff where all of that effort is just thrown in the trash for no-one special, just can't keep happening constantly where it's thrown in my face. 

I couldn't tell you why this keeps happening, there doesn't seem to be any reason for it. Don't try and justify especially not using some of the reasons that have been given here which are so far off base, you can't justify it's just a thing. Just take the observation, don't give it reason, just take it for what it is. Even if there were an excuse it wouldn't be enough. Instead of helping me, which is icky right? Feels icky just saying. Why don't we work on creating a mandate that we shouldn't lower our standards, and have women here, boys who don't deserve it over there, and have the women hold out even on we men who deserve it until they can make a better decision about their prospects. Now that group could actually get some traction unlike incels. 

Edited June 23 by ImplicitDemands

[zapatos]

This is starting to feel like an episode of Euphoria.

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Euphoria follows high schoolers in the fictional town of East Highland, California, who seek hope while balancing the strains of love, loss, sex, and addiction.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Euphoria_(American_TV_series)

[iNow]

17 minutes ago, ImplicitDemands said:

I couldn't tell you why this keeps happening

It’s your attitude and worldview 

It’s six (6) pages now you’ve been droning on and on and whining. 

[ImplicitDemands]

7 hours ago, MSC said:

Hell, I may even pick your brain as admittedly it sounds like you're better at that stuff than I am via exercise. 

My BMI is under 10%. Exercise was a small part of it. I had built up a frame over the years, right now it was just portion control. I lost some of that frame but I've gotten back in the weight room. Just make sure you hit all the muscle groups, go until failure, if your numbers are very low like mine are now, stop, wait a few minutes, and then go back and hit it. If it was chest or abs and you feel you rushed the workout later that day long after your done you can substitute with pushups and crunches. The goal is soreness throughout each week, that's the quota. Today everything I hit is sore except shoulders, meaning I need to change my shoulder routine. At this BMI I have to be over 500 cals below what is considered or believed to be the recommended daily amount, and 9 pounds under what is considered the minimum healthy weight for my height. At 36 grams of protein per day, the fat per day and all that other stuff reduced, I'd wager it would take at least 2 weeks to gain a pound of muscle, that is with sufficient microtrauma. I wouldn't change my calorie intake until two weeks have transpired and my numbers go up on lifts. 

Edited June 23 by ImplicitDemands

[ImplicitDemands]

2 hours ago, iNow said:

whining

You're absolutely right. Whining over time I can't get back, opportunities passed because of obligations which were supposed to be rewarded according to the information I'd been given. 

On 6/20/2024 at 10:34 PM, ImplicitDemands said:

There's plenty of history on me for one to feel intimately about me, but that is mitigated between everyone I've ever interacted with and being constantly transition, as far as I can tell all of that was for nothing as of right now.

 

3 hours ago, ImplicitDemands said:

Like I said it's rare for me to actually be at my peak for dating and it requires constant work, and that was all thrown in the trashcan for the fat of land who got lucky everywhere I looked.

 

From just those two posts an elected official interested in stable fusion and all that electromechanical engineering that automates inputs for it to boot, need only look at those two quotes for a 360 degree angle breakdown of the 9/11 or Pompeii scale of how royally my time's been f-ed. 

If it's anything it's not my attitude, I've said multiple times that outwardly I remain cordial inside my most furious states of being, it's the constant displacement. My social structure is the same as the nonexistent bone structure of a jellyfish but only because of how limited I am in my placement and how long it lasts. So at least fix that, first take wherever I am and start thinking opposite side of the country or as far away as possible from my current placement. 

Edited June 23 by ImplicitDemands

[ImplicitDemands]

5 hours ago, iNow said:

It’s six (6) pages now

I've offered better solutions than anyone else. I can't make that happen, I'm not the government I can't offer discounts for favoring me as a courtship candidate. 

I could keep going on about think-tank solutions they'd only be used for people who haven't been proven to be able to retrace non-documented origins of widely used Arithmetic, as I have lately. 

It's none of these names:

List of world's smartest people

It's me, my name isn't on that list because I have two contacts, my immediate family. My SSN has nothing but an arrest record attached to it, NO FURTHER DETAILS. I am completely unknown but when it comes down to it I might be able express why neutrinos are able to phase through matter using arithmetic. Guess we'll never know because I'm not willing to even be willing to give you the chance to make me willing to explain that as I did my workout routine. Getting fit is simple, it's just difficult. All that engineering and math stuff is not simple to figure out. I could explain in a simple way if I really cared to. 

Edited June 23 by ImplicitDemands

[MSC]

Not even addressing about 90% of what I said. Stop disassociating.

[John Cuthber]

7 hours ago, ImplicitDemands said:

My BMI is under 10%.

What does that even mean?
(Mine is about 25 kg/m²)

[dimreepr]

3 hours ago, ImplicitDemands said:

I've offered better solutions than anyone else. I can't make that happen, I'm not the government I can't offer discounts for favoring me as a courtship candidate. 

Have you???

You can't force people to have sex, that's illegal; so the best solution, is to relax and hope for the best, if you want to avoid a sentence; that you won't want to hear. 😇

 

[StringJunky]

8 hours ago, ImplicitDemands said:

My BMI is under 10%. Exercise was a small part of it. I had built up a frame over the years, right now it was just portion control. I lost some of that frame but I've gotten back in the weight room. Just make sure you hit all the muscle groups, go until failure, if your numbers are very low like mine are now, stop, wait a few minutes, and then go back and hit it. If it was chest or abs and you feel you rushed the workout later that day long after your done you can substitute with pushups and crunches. The goal is soreness throughout each week, that's the quota. Today everything I hit is sore except shoulders, meaning I need to change my shoulder routine. At this BMI I have to be over 500 cals below what is considered or believed to be the recommended daily amount, and 9 pounds under what is considered the minimum healthy weight for my height. At 36 grams of protein per day, the fat per day and all that other stuff reduced, I'd wager it would take at least 2 weeks to gain a pound of muscle, that is with sufficient microtrauma. I wouldn't change my calorie intake until two weeks have transpired and my numbers go up on lifts. 

You've worked on your body, now work  on your mind. I'm voluntarily celibate, by the way; 30 years. I've never worked on my appearance, and yet still managed to organically attract women, when I was interested. Ultimately, I think, people see what they see in a potential partner in their 'mind's eye', and not with their physical eyes. If all your idiosyncrasies, attitude, character, personality add up to an appealing aesthetic vision, they will likely be attracted to you. If you focus on your appearance exclusively, you will only attract those that have the same superficial  aesthetic values. You are focusing on things about yourself  that are attracting the wrong kind of woman for you.

Edited June 23 by StringJunky

[iNow]

8 hours ago, ImplicitDemands said:

If it's anything it's not my attitude

Simply repeating an invalid claim over and over doesn’t magically render it true 

[MSC]

2 hours ago, iNow said:

Simply repeating an invalid claim over and over doesn’t magically render it true 

Yup. @ImplicitDemands it is definitely your attitude that is the problem. Lets make a bet. Show this entire thread to a psychiatrist or clinical psychologist. If they say other people are the problem and not you, I'll eat my hat and try to set you up with someone on your promise to be respectful and to not mention incel stuff, at least to women, ever again. If they say you are the problem and need help, you have to take it and work with it for at least 1 year. Do we have a bet? I mean, if you're right then you should have no problems not taking that bet. Easy win right? 

[ImplicitDemands]

5 hours ago, dimreepr said:

You can't force people to have sex, that's illegal; so the best solution, is to relax and hope for the best, if you want to avoid a sentence; that you won't want to hear. 😇

Let us get one thing very clear. What you are referring starts with the letter r. And it has lighter forms, including hercy jerky arranged marriage. Or even a sh-t date if you want to get very mild. In fact dating in poverty or bad social status could be compared to the r-word. I compared the r-word to an vicarious experience, possibly manufactured, that I have experienced far too often lately. My first time r-worded me of what it could have been for me. So I would like it if you recognized my needs for quality as being the opposite of the r word, and please discontinue alluding toward it, even remotely. 

5 hours ago, dimreepr said:

Have you???

Even if the slightest revelations I've shared were trivial, if they were accurate and intuitive (meaning not explicitly apart of the information provided for me) than that shows I'm capable of learning something not so trivial.

Don't you think, that if there were enough interest in the potential of the human mind to spend massive amounts of effort rehashing old philosophers and mathematicians long gone, that if there were the slightest chance that someone has shown that kind of potential is deceitful, and withholding, that this isn't a problem to be addressed? Of course the solution is always a negative one, not a positive one, because brute force is a quick fix and society has become cheap and uncreative. 

Speaking of negatives vs positives, I see a lot of member here with over a thousand positive reps. I haven't seen anyone with 1000 negative reps. Let's see, iNow has 7,069 positive reps so if I just had another 7,049 negative reps, I'd at least be a worthy villain. Not this 20 crap, I mean I'm not even the highest score in negative reps. Red is my favorite color. 

I'm sorry, for a laugh I just had to add this video given the context.

 

Edited June 23 by ImplicitDemands

[ImplicitDemands]

Seriously I want everyone that has been sending me negative reputations to take a long look at themselves in the mirror after carefully viewing this chart

If you look at the colors in the chart and compare that to reputations, justify the reason you're giving them and see if you don't in reality fall along the victim side in doing so. 

Some believe the color green has been associated with jealousy dating back to the ancient Greeks. They believed jealousy occurred as result of the overproduction of bile, which turned human skin slightly green.

One potential explanation for the color red being associated with power is that this color is often used to draw attention. 9 This increased attention signifies that something is important, and power and importance often go hand in hand.

[swansont]

2 hours ago, ImplicitDemands said:

Speaking of negatives vs positives, I see a lot of member here with over a thousand positive reps. I haven't seen anyone with 1000 negative reps.

Folks that ignore feedback tend not to last that long, because that includes suggestions to follow the rules. There’s a pretty strong correlation between negative rep and chronic rule-breaking.

[MSC]

2 hours ago, ImplicitDemands said:

Speaking of negatives vs positives, I see a lot of member here with over a thousand positive reps. I haven't seen anyone with 1000 negative reps. Let's see, iNow has 7,069 positive reps so if I just had another 7,049 negative reps, I'd at least be a worthy villain. Not this 20 crap, I mean I'm not even the highest score in negative reps. Red is my favorite color. 

Red is much more associated with danger in most peoples eyes. But then I imagine it would be the favourite colour of a walking, talking, breathing red flag.

2 hours ago, ImplicitDemands said:

Let us get one thing very clear. What you are referring starts with the letter r. And it has lighter forms, including hercy jerky arranged marriage. Or even a sh-t date if you want to get very mild. In fact dating in poverty or bad social status could be compared to the r-word. I compared the r-word to an vicarious experience, possibly manufactured, that I have experienced far too often lately. My first time r-worded me of what it could have been for me. So I would like it if you recognized my needs for quality as being the opposite of the r word, and please discontinue alluding toward it, even remotely.

Uhm... what? Are you claiming you were raped or have raped? I'm confused. Or are you claiming you've been raped emotionally? Maybe just speak a bit plainer. Sometimes less is more. 

[ImplicitDemands]

3 hours ago, MSC said:

Lets make a bet. Show this entire thread to a psychiatrist or clinical psychologist. If they say other people are the problem and not you, I'll eat my hat and try to set you up with someone on your promise to be respectful and to not mention incel stuff, at least to women, ever again. If they say you are the problem and need help, you have to take it and work with it for at least 1 year.

It's funny that you'd trust a psychiatrist, basically a drug dealer, that much to actually act out on it. 

Edited June 23 by ImplicitDemands

[MSC]

2 hours ago, ImplicitDemands said:

Let's see, iNow has 7,069 positive reps so if I just had another 7,049 negative reps, I'd at least be a worthy villain. Not this 20 crap, I mean I'm not even the highest score in negative reps.

Dude, do you hear yourself? You're complaining about negative reps but at the same time complaining you didn't get the most. That is Narcissism right there. That is malignant self love and genuinely, it makes you weak and much less likely to procreate or survive calamities because you'd be a liability. 

[ImplicitDemands]

25 minutes ago, MSC said:

Red is much more associated with danger in most peoples eyes.

This comes from it being the color of blood. Which has nothing to do with why I found it aesthetic when I was too young to even think about it. You know what the color green looks like? Vomit. You know at least blood doesn't smell as bad as stomach acid. 

As far as the wavelength of light goes, at least red is at one end of the spectrum. On the end is fricken purple. It's like difference between masculine and feminine. Red being the longest wavelength more heat dispersal, purple the shortest and therefore more hot-tempered. Blue and green aren't even at either side of the spectrum, they don't even matter. 

[MSC]

2 minutes ago, ImplicitDemands said:

It's funny that you'd trust a psychiatrist, basically a drug dealer, that much to actually act out on it

Depends on the psychiatrist. It's not a philosophically cut and dry profession. Yes you have your drug pushers but in a capitalist market you just gotta do your due dilligence and find the ones that aren't drug pushers if that is what you want, however some medications have scientific backing in helping with the sort of symptoms that make socialising more difficult, like irritability. Ask anyone here for example what I'm like unmedicated + Stressed tf out, a few of them know. I certainly do. 

Psychiatrists first and foremost are medical doctors. They aren't going to judge you as inferior for having medical problems or call your manhood into question for some potential hormonal imbalance or chemical brain imbalance that could be caused by anything from lack of certain nutrients or lack of bodies ability to create certain proteins or enzymes. 

I mean don't get me wrong, I do have some szaszian perspectives  when it comes to psychiatry and do prefer a symptom management based approach when it comes to my autism diagnosis, over seeking some cure model that would fundamentally change who I am or also a strict definition model where my symptomology or traits are boxed into any type of psychiactric label if it won't be useful for helping me resolve an issue that gets in the way of having a consistent good quality of life. 

Narcissism itself isn't always a bad thing so long as you know when to switch it off. Most of us have that switch as a means of survival and there are situations where narcissists would survive where others wouldn't but the inverse is true too. 

Aren't you just the least bit curious what psychiatrists might have to say? There is even a psychiatry section here on this forum and other forums for it. What have you got to lose? It's not like you even have to tell anyone about it either it's all protected medical information and you can basically say anything to them and they'll keep it secret unless you tell them you're going to harm someone or yourself. 

[ImplicitDemands]

1 minute ago, MSC said:

Depends on the psychiatrist. It's not a philosophically cut and dry profession. Yes you have your drug pushers but in a capitalist market you just gotta do your due dilligence and find the ones that aren't drug pushers if that is what you want, however some medications have scientific backing in helping with the sort of symptoms that make socialising more difficult, like irritability. Ask anyone here for example what I'm like unmedicated + Stressed tf out, a few of them know. I certainly do. 

Psychiatrists first and foremost are medical doctors. They aren't going to judge you as inferior for having medical problems or call your manhood into question for some potential hormonal imbalance or chemical brain imbalance that could be caused by anything from lack of certain nutrients or lack of bodies ability to create certain proteins or enzymes. 

I mean don't get me wrong, I do have some szaszian perspectives  when it comes to psychiatry and do prefer a symptom management based approach when it comes to my autism diagnosis, over seeking some cure model that would fundamentally change who I am or also a strict definition model where my symptomology or traits are boxed into any type of psychiactric label if it won't be useful for helping me resolve an issue that gets in the way of having a consistent good quality of life. 

Narcissism itself isn't always a bad thing so long as you know when to switch it off. Most of us have that switch as a means of survival and there are situations where narcissists would survive where others wouldn't but the inverse is true too. 

Aren't you just the least bit curious what psychiatrists might have to say? There is even a psychiatry section here on this forum and other forums for it. What have you got to lose? It's not like you even have to tell anyone about it either it's all protected medical information and you can basically say anything to them and they'll keep it secret unless you tell them you're going to harm someone or yourself. 

Those aren't even the reasons I'm opposed to use of medication in the first place. Not one of those points touch on the fact that a chemical, however complex, just isn't sufficient to rewire an entire labyrinth of synaptic-patterns in real-time. Alcohol and any mind-altering substance simply can't compete with a living working brain. In general. There is no wonder drug, there never will be. 

You know what else a psychiatrist does? Apply a massive voltage to the brain. They also poke needles into it through the eyeball. 

[MSC]

4 minutes ago, ImplicitDemands said:

This comes from it being the color of blood. Which has nothing to do with why I found it aesthetic when I was too young to even think about it. You know what the color green looks like? Vomit. You know at least blood doesn't smell as bad as stomach acid. 

As far as the wavelength of light goes, at least red is at one end of the spectrum. On the end is fricken purple. It's like difference between masculine and feminine. Red being the longest wavelength more heat dispersal, purple the shortest and therefore more hot-tempered. Blue and green aren't even at either side of the spectrum, they don't even matter. 

You know they say narcissism is the inability to move along from an earlier stage of development, usually either toddlerhood or teenage years. This would explain why you need to boil everything down to a simple colour model and have a strangely subjective animosity towards certain colours while putting others on a pedestal for arbitrary reasons. It's hexagons are the bestagons all over again. Who tf cares what your favourite colour is or why you hate purple and green. Literally your weird charts are so subjective I could come up with a reasonably logical explanation for why every colour is either good or bad. Who cares. Take care of yo mental health.

[ImplicitDemands]

1 minute ago, MSC said:

This would explain why you need to boil everything down to a simple colour model and have a strangely subjective animosity towards certain colours while putting others on a pedestal for arbitrary reasons.

Why on earth would that irritate anyone? 

[MSC]

1 minute ago, ImplicitDemands said:

There is no wonder drug, there never will be. 

A little better is better than nothing and I think you underestimate the power of endocrinology over time too, take adrenaline for example, massively profound, oxytocin, massively profound. Should a cancer patient not seek treatment because there is no known treatment that works in minutes? Should a person not visit a dentist because the dentist can't magic the bad tooth away in minutes and make sure there is zero hole that needs to heal afterward? Suck it up. Medical workers can work wonders but patients have to commit time and... patience! 

3 minutes ago, ImplicitDemands said:

Why on earth would that irritate anyone? 

A better question is why you think any of it is relevent to whether or not you see a psychiatrist before you hurt someone?

[ImplicitDemands]

16 minutes ago, MSC said:

A better question is why you think any of it is relevent to whether or not you see a psychiatrist before you hurt someone?

Hurt someone by not sharing my quantum physics with the world? 

16 minutes ago, MSC said:

A little better is better than nothing and I think you underestimate the power of endocrinology over time too, take adrenaline for example, massively profound, oxytocin, massively profound. Should a cancer patient not seek treatment because there is no known treatment that works in minutes? Should a person not visit a dentist because the dentist can't magic the bad tooth away in minutes and make sure there is zero hole that needs to heal afterward? Suck it up. Medical workers can work wonders but patients have to commit time and... patience! 

No let's be honest here and call it for what it is. It's a gun or at best a taser, to thwart some imagined threat woven from some out-of-context babble, as you're about to try. In most cases it does even more damage than a taser ever could, because it attacks the brain. The same can be said for street drugs. 

 

25 minutes ago, MSC said:

Most of us have that switch as a means of survival and there are situations where narcissists would survive where others wouldn't but the inverse is true too. 

It's called humor. Sometimes laughter at the wrong moment can be a critical error, especially when it's manic. Such as laughing at something said, that something having a deeply personal and traumatic context that you didn't realize it possessed. I even know when to switch to a straight face mid-laughter. 

The entire Batman-Joker complex is the most difficult temperament one could ever attain. 

If someone is just seeing the last part of this latest comment, they're probably thinking I'm an incel because I still read comic books. 🤣

Edited June 23 by ImplicitDemands